1. There is too little communication to establish parents' trust in teachers.
2. The head teacher must keep smooth communication with parents at any time and in time.
3. How to solve the problems encountered: first talk about the child's performance, then talk about the reasons for this performance, and finally guide parents to find a solution to this problem. Never talk to parents about their children's problems by reprimanding/complaining.
On the way to education, the perfect relationship is that parents trust teachers and teachers go all out.
Parents' attitude towards teachers determines children's attitude towards learning.
There is an old saying: "Only when you kiss his teacher will you believe his teaching;" If you trust your teacher, you will love your teaching. "
It means that only when students are close to the teacher will they trust the teacher, believe what the teacher says and accept the teacher's education.
Whether children love learning or not must happen on the premise of trusting and respecting teachers.
Parents are children's mirrors and the people they trust most, and their words and deeds will deeply affect children.
When parents don't trust the teacher, they will send a wrong signal to their children: the teacher's education is not trustworthy, which will make the children resist the teacher inside.
When children don't have trust and respect for teachers, how can they listen to classes well and fall in love with learning?
Children don't trust teachers, even if they are excellent teachers, their education is invalid.
However, if children want to become talents, they cannot do without school education and teacher education.
Parents don't trust teachers, which is undoubtedly a kind of harm to children's growth.
Parents don't trust teachers, and teachers are afraid of teaching badly.
A teacher spoke a lot of teacher's troubles:
I teach my children by teaching and educating people, but I don't know why, there are always parents who don't trust me, whether it's subject teaching or class management, and they seem to be not satisfied with what I have done.
I am very strict with the children. They say I hurt their self-esteem. I am tolerant of children. They said I was not strict.
I don't know how to teach students now.
Every child is a treasure in the hands of parents, and the growth of every child is what parents are most concerned about.
These behaviors of parents are for the good of children, and teachers can understand them.
The distrust of parents will only make teachers less confident and even more afraid to let go of educating their children.
Just like when a child is doing his homework, his parents are pointing and yelling at him, and the child will only become overwhelmed and less confident. This is the same reason.
Parents, don't distrust teachers. Please believe that the teacher loves your child as much as you do, and hope that he will become better.
Dear parents, please trust the teacher. If teachers gain your trust, they will be more involved.
Small changes in parents, teachers' efforts, and finally your children will benefit.
Parents don't want to stand side by side with teachers, and education will only become a deadlock.
I once asked a teacher what to do if I have problems with my parents.
The teacher said helplessly, "It doesn't matter if my parents misunderstand me, but something happened when I delayed my child."
Parents who win the teacher are likely to lose their children.
As Liu Changming, president of North No.4 Middle School, said, "Any parents who don't cooperate with the school will have a tragic result."
Every time there is a contradiction between home and school, we should reflect: Is the contradiction really inevitable?
On the road of children's growth, teachers and parents have the same responsibility and mission, that is, to make children become talents.
Since they are all for the sake of children, when there are contradictions, they should communicate well and solve them for the benefit of children.
It is the responsibility of teachers and parents to really help children solve problems.
Parents' attitude towards teachers directly determines teachers' attitude towards children.
Teachers are more willing to be close to and trust their parents and pay more attention to their children than parents who don't trust them.
Only when teachers and parents untie their own bad feelings can they better support their children's education. Only when home and school are harmonious can children be happier.
On the way to educate children, parents and teachers need to shoulder to shoulder.
Teachers are not omnipotent, but they will try their best.
As a parent, have you ever lost your temper because your child hit you at school?
Thank you very much. You didn't answer the phone right away. Let the teacher give you an explanation.
You know, it is very difficult for a person to take care of a child, and it is really not easy for a teacher to manage a class or even several classes by himself.
Teachers are passionate about educating children.
But teachers are ordinary people, not saints. Teachers may make mistakes and make mistakes.
No teacher can take care of all the children, let alone take care of them like parents.
Sometimes even the teacher's dereliction of duty, the teacher's work is not in place, really not intentional, but really negligent.
No matter how good a teacher is, no matter how responsible a teacher is, negligence is inevitable.
I hope parents will think more about the teacher's education and don't completely deny the teacher's contribution to the children because of a mistake.
There are no perfect parents and no perfect teachers.
Please believe that teachers are learning, making progress and making children better.
Please believe that teachers are doing their best in the past, present and future.
Only a strict teacher can make a noble apprentice. Please forgive the teacher's intolerance.
The People's Daily once wrote, "Teachers dare not criticize students. Who is to blame? 》
The article said three sentences, which impressed me deeply:
Of course, teachers should criticize students for doing wrong. If right and wrong are indistinguishable, what about "education"?
Students are like saplings. If the branches are not pruned in time, they can easily grow into "crooked-neck trees".
Most teachers are good for their children, and many teachers' criticisms are "deep love and responsibility".
As the old saying goes, a strict teacher makes a good apprentice.
Teachers become teachers because they have a sense of mission to "education".
As a teacher, I am most afraid of delaying my children, so I am strict in discipline and never dare to relax.
Who doesn't want to be a teacher popular with students? Who doesn't want students to be close to themselves?
But in children's education, there must be such "bad guys".
Perhaps the teacher criticizes the child, which will hurt the child's self-esteem and make the parents feel distressed, but the teacher is the most strict with the child, but he loves the child the most.
Teachers expect their children to become better and better, which is the paradox of preaching and teaching, and also the deep affection of teachers.
The teacher must be the most sincere to the child's heart, and only hope that the child will take the right path and be happy all his life.
A good education is not to satisfy children blindly.
As the old saying goes: it's your dad's fault if you don't teach; What is a teacher? A strict missionary.
It is the fault of parents to provide food and clothes for their children without proper education. Only education, not strict requirements, is laziness as a teacher.
Parents discipline children and teachers discipline students, which is really good for children.
You know, the background of education has never been absolute laissez-faire and happiness.
As Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University said, "The main idea of our education is to constantly accommodate children, give them more happiness and give them more play time. How can there be such education under the sun? "
After all, children are not adults. Children must be disciplined and behave themselves.
There is a saying that there is no greenhouse outside the campus, and it is no fun when you grow up.
If children are not strictly disciplined now, the outside world will punish them sooner or later.
Concession to children in the name of love is the biggest irresponsibility to children.
If parents don't protect their weaknesses, education will have power; Students have a future only if the teacher does not tolerate them.
Only when parents and teachers are strict, can children have awe, fear the classroom, fear knowledge and fear the future!
Only when parents and teachers form an educational synergy can they light up their children's future.
Suhomlinski said: "Schools and families should not only act in concert and make the same demands on their children, but also have the same interests and beliefs and always proceed from the same principles. There should be no difference in the purpose, process or means of education. Otherwise, the role of education will be disturbed, weakened or even offset. "
On the road of educating children, parents and teachers should form a joint force.
Only by combining the two can the educational function be maximized.
Parents and teachers are required to:
Respect and trust each other; Correct positioning and sincere communication; Proactive and timely communication; Stay rational and stick to the bottom line; Learn together and make progress together.
Children's education can not be separated from the careful care of parents and the inculcation of teachers.
Our love for our children is the same, and so is our desire for their success.
Along the way, parents and teachers met, which was an encounter of love and trust.
Only when teachers and parents cooperate, trust and support each other can children learn well, go far and have a bright future.