There is nothing wrong with educating a child well, but remember what the point is. The key point is to educate children to be good enough first. If they are not good enough, they will not be able to educate a good child. If you teach children 100, you must first achieve 100.

If your child listens to you, he will be in the same state as you and will not surpass you. If you only get 60 points, then the child will also get 60 points. You have to find out whether you want your child to be another you and become your present state. If that's what you want, let the children develop according to your ideas and your direction.

If you think it's not enough to make your child a different version of you, and you want him to surpass you, then you can't expect him to be too obedient. You have many constraints and restrictions. But let him break through those restrictions, let him be more free and unrestricted than you, and thus surpass him.

I hope the above answers are helpful to you ~