In family education, there have always been two controversial views on education. One is whether it is right or wrong to hit a child. "A dutiful son is born under a stick" is an excellent example. Right or wrong, I believe many people have their own opinions. The second is that the elders are right, which often happens in family education. Many people may give up their ideas because they care about the feelings of their elders, and even do what they think is right, regardless of the consequences.

Children's decision-making power

In family education, the opinions of elders can be heard, but the final decision is still in the hands of children. As the main body of family education, children have their own independent thoughts and opinions, which should be respected and supported. In the face of the opinions of elders, children can seriously consider, weigh the pros and cons, and finally make their own decisions.

Express your thoughts

If children think that their elders' opinions are wrong, they can choose not to implement them, but they should learn how to express their thoughts and opinions.

Stick to the right thing.

At the same time, children should also have the right to stick to their own decisions and do what they think is right at their own risk.