From the perspective of respect
The important thing is to respect each other, and don't blame your mother-in-law for raising children differently. If you can't accept the opinions of the elderly, communicate with them in a calm and respectful tone.
Take a stand and strive for understanding
Many problems, such as chasing children to feed them and buying snacks for them, children's wayward behaviors are unwilling to be corrected and let them do whatever they want. .......................................................................................................................................
Take a thoughtful stand
My mother-in-law brought up her own children, and now she has to bring her grandchildren. Young people should understand the hardships of the elderly. On this basis, housework can be communicated in a peaceful way.
Parenting is no small matter, but sometimes you should listen carefully to the advice of the elderly. After all, they have practical experience. The effective combination of tradition and science is the real knowledge. In fact, harmonious family relations are more conducive to children's physical and mental growth.
Raising children is very important, but since mother-in-law is the elder, we need to reach an agreement on raising children and need to communicate with her. First of all, our own parenting methods should stand the test and be correct. Secondly, when we communicate with our mother-in-law, we should be patient, respect her, and let her feel that we are thinking of our children, not deliberately opposing her. Finally, you can listen to your mother-in-law's opinion and see if she has a better opinion. We can't overturn her point of view without thinking.
Let me give an example to illustrate the way my mother-in-law and I communicate in parenting. Mother-in-law has been helping her son wash his face and hands, but his son has already gone to kindergarten. The teacher asked him to wash himself, and her mother-in-law didn't take it to heart. One night, I went to communicate with her. I told her that your intention is good, but it will lock the child's hand, and the child will not have the opportunity to exercise, which is not good for the child's growth. I took her to visit other children of the same age. Mother-in-law thinks it makes sense, and then slowly lets her son wash his face and hands. Sometimes it is difficult to communicate with my mother-in-law. Persistence and self-confidence will help you succeed for your child's future. Let's go