A reflection of the country's good social customs. Children are the flowers of the motherland and the hope of the nation. It is not only the requirement of school education, but also the important responsibility of every parent in family education to educate them on manners and etiquette so that they can develop good manners and etiquette. As parents, everyone wants their children to be polite and popular. However, a person's customs and habits are not born, but gradually formed in the acquired education and training. Children are young and flexible, which is a favorable opportunity to cultivate their civilized behavior. Parents should attach importance to it ideologically, strengthen education and cultivate it carefully, so that children can develop good habits of civility and courtesy from an early age.
1. Cultivate children's civilized and polite behavior habits. Everyone is bound to associate with others, and there should be certain rules in interpersonal communication, and politeness is one of them. Parents should consciously teach their children to master some necessary knowledge of communication with others, so that children can develop good habits of civility and politeness. For example, friendship, solidarity and mutual assistance with classmates.
Modesty, no fighting, no bullying, no swearing; Respect and love parents and teachers, take the initiative to call them and help their elders do what they can without losing their temper; When guests come home, they take the initiative to say hello, not cold and heartless, and do not make noise under an excuse; When others are at work or at rest, keep quiet, go in and out quietly, make no noise or make any noise; Borrowing other people's things should be agreed in advance, returned in time after use, and not damaged at will.
Don't litter; When others are in trouble, they should take the initiative to care and help enthusiastically, and they should not turn a blind eye and be indifferent.
2. Cultivate children's habit of using polite language. Civilized and polite language not only reflects a person's mental outlook, but also reflects a person's upbringing. When people communicate with each other, they all want to be respected and polite by others, rather than being treated rudely. Parents should educate their children from an early age to form the habit of civilized use.
The habit of polite language. If the other person is called "you"; Use "please" when asking for help; Say "thank you" after accepting help; When others express their gratitude, say "you're welcome"; Inadvertently bumped into someone, he apologized and said, "Yes.
I'm sorry ""please forgive me "; Be hit and say "it doesn't matter"; Meet people in the morning and say "good morning"; Meet and say hello at ordinary times; Say goodbye "goodbye" and so on. In particular, it is necessary to educate children not to swear, but to
It's a shame to say such things.
3. Cultivate children's good habits of observing social morality and social order. each
Everyone lives in social reality. Like families and schools, society has its own rules. Only by obeying the rules of society can our society reach the level of civilization. If everyone is immoral and unruly, there can be no good situation of stability and unity in our society. Children are in the embryonic stage of moral consciousness, so parents should seize the opportunity to educate their children on social morality and let them form the habit of observing social morality and society.
Good order habits. For example, it is necessary to educate children to protect the environment, care for hygiene, do not spit everywhere, and do not throw scraps of paper peel; Educate children to take good care of public property, not to damage tables and chairs, not to pick flowers and trees, and not to scribble on walls, blackboards and cultural relics; Children are required to observe public order, not to run and play in public places, and not to walk freely on the road.
In order to let children form the habit of being polite, parents should first set an example and influence their children imperceptibly with their exemplary behavior. If we can't do this, the cultivation of all civilized manners and habits will become empty talk.