Almost all parents are facing or about to face their children's rebellious period. Children don't look as cute as before, and they have their own ideas about everything. Below I have collected some educational methods about rebellious children, hoping to help you.

Educational methods for children in rebellious period 1 1, and learn more about children.

While parents are busy making a living, they must take time to learn more about their children, communicate with their children and their teachers, and try their best to fully grasp their children's performance in school and family.

The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.

2. Absorb educational knowledge

The society is changing, the environment for children to grow up is also changing, and the way of education will naturally continue to improve. As parents, we should be duty-bound to actively absorb new educational knowledge.

In the traditional way of parenting education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authoritative education.

3. Listen to your children patiently

If parents are impatient and aggressive, the most direct response to disobedient children is usually swearing. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.

Some parents always like to be dignified in front of their children and are used to treating their children with the above attitude. In this regard, I especially suggest that parents really put down their posture and respect their children from the heart, stop talking to their children in a commanding tone and respect their children as adults. Don't always tell the children? No? Instead, give children multiple-choice questions and let them make their own decisions.

Step 4 reason with your child

In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others.

As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.

5. Let the children experience it.

If children always don't listen to adults, can parents let their children do it themselves on the premise of ensuring safety and no adverse consequences? Self-inflicted consequences? Taste. Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.

Step 6 negotiate with your children

Don't always ask children to live according to the wishes of adults, so not only children are suffering, but even adults are suffering. Children are human beings, and of course they have their own things to do. Therefore, it may be a good idea to negotiate with your child and take a step back. After the parents handle things, they will take their children to the park to dance.

7. Don't discipline children when they are angry.

In a state of extreme anger, parents certainly can't discipline their children in a rational way. Therefore, when parents can't calm down anyway, they are advised to leave the scene temporarily or divert their attention to other things, such as chatting with friends and listening to music. When you calm down, talk to your children.

8. Revise expectations for children.

Sometimes parents are really too eager to achieve success, and often take the standards that they can't do (maybe parents think they can do it, but they have never done it! Ask the children. You know, it is normal for children to be young, active, stubborn and forgetful.

9. Treat children sincerely

Some parents always like to use a tone of accusation or command when communicating with their children, which often makes it difficult for children to accept. The communication between parents and children should be sincere and there is no distance. Parents can honestly explain their worries or emotions to their children and let them know that his behavior will make you sad, or make you worry and fear.

And then what? Rebellion? Children's communication methods

Educational methods for children in rebellious period Part II: First, pay attention to the growth process of children.

Why do adolescent children get angry easily and talk extremely? Because children at this stage are in a period of rapid physical changes, for example, boys begin to grow beards and their voices become thicker; Physical development of girls and so on. For them, these changes are often expect the unexpected. If they are not prepared in advance, they will panic and worry, thinking that there is something wrong with their health, especially not knowing that others are actually facing the same troubles as themselves. So, this? Different? Their feelings make them particularly sensitive and easy to feel inferior. This requires our parents to pay attention to their children's growth and guide them to understand this? Special problems? .

Second, cultivate children's self-confidence.

When you help your child determine his learning goals, you should first look at his current situation and potential. Especially for those children whose grades are not ideal at present, the more practical way is that you can help them set a learning goal in stages. This goal should be based on his current achievements. If he only got 50 points this time, then you'd better not expect him to get 890 points at once. Of course, such a miracle may happen, but in any case, our expectations may be lower. For example, the next time he passes, you can give encouragement and praise in time. This will reduce the pressure on the child, and when his grades are much better than we expected, we can share this rare joy with the child! And this can enhance his self-confidence.

Third, give the child a smiling face

Don't bring home unpleasant feelings outside of work or work. Even if you are unhappy outside, remember to remind yourself before entering the door: adjust your mentality and give your child a smiling face when he opens the door to meet you. This is very important. Letting your child see you smiling, in fact, relieves her psychological pressure and makes her feel that you are easy to approach. In this way, she will be less alert and resistant to you, and she is willing to tell you if she has something to say.

Adolescent children have a desire to talk at this age, so parents had better be a serious listener, because this shows that you attach importance to him, and this kind of listening is a comfort to him. Otherwise, he will feel left out. What should I do if I am left out? Go outside and find someone who can comfort him. Why do some children make friends with bad teenagers and fall in love early? Of course, there are many reasons, but the fundamental one is the lack of family care and the warmth of family.

Fourth, spend more time with your children.

Now the only child is lonely and lacks playmates. Therefore, parents still have a task, to play with their children, often choose books suitable for her, accompany her to surf the Internet, play cards with her, and accompany her to exercise. In this process, parents can understand her likes and dislikes and guide her in time. Spend more time with your child, play with him, talk with him, and maybe he won't look for spiritual sustenance in the illusory world.

Fifth, know children and trust them.

Children grow up and pay more attention to privacy. Some parents peeked at their children's diaries and found some secrets of their children. They couldn't hold their breath and flew into a rage. This is the most unwise way to educate children. If you think that only by reading your child's diary can you understand what the child is thinking, that's fine, but it's best not to get angry, let yourself calm down, analyze the reasons and think about ways to deal with it. And most importantly, don't let your child know that you have seen something she doesn't want to see. Otherwise, it is easy for her to have a crisis of trust in you and have a rebellious mentality.

And then what? Rebellion? Children's communication style 1, pay more attention to children's situation at school, but don't let children have it? Parents and teachers collude? This feeling.

2. After children enter the rebellious period of youth, parents should pay attention to delegating all kinds of rights to them to help them transition from ignorance to maturity.

3. avoid? Should you? 、? Do you have to? 、? you do not get it , do you? Something like that? A spell? .

4. Respect children's right to privacy. If the child really doesn't want to communicate with you, don't be too reluctant. Respect children and earn respect for yourself.

5. In the contact with children, discover the advantages of children as much as possible, encourage them more, and reduce their resistance to you.