There are too many children in life who always try their best to get the love of others under the ardent expectations of their parents. Under the pressure of parents, it is often counterproductive. Children can't be the posture you want most, but even ordinary people can't. You are always over-pursuing and thinking about letting your child live a posture that others like, and it is best to let your child be in front of outsiders, but such quick success and instant benefit are often in vain.

First, give children the opportunity to grow up freely.

Compared with the attitude of children in the eyes of others, what needs to be concerned more is the children's own experience of life. Under the normal mentality of the masses, children are more likely to become better and better people. Short-sighted parents see their children's present, while long-sighted parents can certainly see their children's best future. We should give our children a comfortable and relaxed present and give them a beautiful and complete future.

Second, let the children live in the posture they want.

The growth of a child needs more space for him to play freely. If a child's life is to live according to the attitude that others want from the beginning, then his personality, hobbies, campus, major, homework and final marriage are all well arranged. Such a life is sad, even if it is not too painful. Just like if we live in a circle of friends all day, and always affect our mood because of a little discussion from others, and ignore the more real sense of existence, then maybe we will never feel the truest beauty.

In fact, the most terrible thing for a person is to lose himself, but after doing his best, he has become a posture that others want. Without your own independent days and thoughts, you should know that life is still a long way off. We should find ourselves first, understand what we really cherish and pay for it, so that we can have more opportunities to choose for ourselves. Don't let anyone get in the way of your choice. Only by following your heart can you become your proper posture, and others will never get the answer.