1. Parents require their children to obey their own will absolutely. If children are disobedient or fail to meet their own requirements, they will be punished or even beaten. Parents decide everything about their children's daily life, including their daily diet, clothes, hobbies, friends and so on. And ask their children to listen to themselves in everything.
Under the strict parenting attitude of parents, children lack autonomy and rely on their parents' face, which may lead to timidity and inferiority, lack of independence, autonomy and self-confidence, and even arrogance and rebellion.
Parents spoil their children too much. Parents do everything for their children, want to provide them with all the help, and are unwilling to let them do anything, even the smallest housework in the family. Such parents make their children develop great dependence, and it is very easy to form selfish, willful and lazy temperament.
Under the parents' doting parenting attitude, children simply can't see their parents' hard work, only consider themselves, regardless of others, very selfish and willful, and have no way to be independent.
3. Let yourself go, but there are two extremes between asking this and what parents do for their children. Some parents ignore their children's growth and pay no attention to their education. In this neglected family, children will feel lonely because they can't get care and fatherly love, and gradually form aggressive, indifferent and withdrawn bad qualities, and their emotions will be capricious and very easy to get angry.
Parents' laissez-faire attitude towards their children is irresponsible and indifferent to their learning and growth. Such parents don't deserve to be parents at all.
Parents' democratic and equal treatment of children is the most democratic and scientific parenting attitude. Parents respect their children, get along with them as equals, do not interfere in their decisions, give them ample free space, do not force them to do things they don't like, respect their independent personality and thoughts, encourage and guide them, criticize and correct their mistakes.
Under this kind of equal and democratic upbringing, it is beneficial to cultivate children's good qualities of self-esteem, self-reliance, generosity and enthusiasm, and also to give full play to their own potential, enhance their self-confidence, humbly accept the shortcomings put forward by others, and cultivate children's excellent qualities of independence, self-confidence, arrogance and self-improvement.
Among these ways for parents to educate their children, the most scientific and democratic one belongs to the last one. It can create a harmonious family environment and help children form good psychological quality.