Parents love their children and make far-reaching plans for them. How to plan in depth and how to educate in the long run? It has always been a problem that puzzles parents. In the face of a child, you always want to give him the best and try your best to do what you can for him. Although we know the importance of family education, we often don't know how to do it. The hardest thing is to face the children's problems, but I don't know how to grasp them. I learned a lot from the book Family Education by Chen Heqin. Reading this book is like meeting your childhood and recalling what your child experienced as a child. The contents of the book are clear and clear, and the views are verified by examples. Through the examples of Mr. Chen's own children and the cases he saw, the principles and methods that should be paid attention to in educating children are classified. It seems bland, but it is full of parenting wisdom. It feels as intimate and natural as Mr. Chen sitting opposite you in a gown and talking to you about his parenting experience.
I have great sympathy, so parents should do a good demonstration. As the book says, children are good at imitation. In the imitation stage, children do not have their own judgment ability, and they do not know right or wrong, beauty and ugliness. I just think I can do it if someone around me does it. Therefore, as a child's first teacher, parents' behavior is particularly important. Parents are important benchmarks for children to imitate. With the development of science and technology, people can't live and work without mobile phones. Most people have the symptoms of mobile phone control and pay attention to the information on their mobile phones all the time. When eating, sleeping and playing with children, most parents keep their mobile phones. Children see in their eyes and also in their actions. Younger children will imitate adults' expressions and actions when watching mobile phones, and older children will ask their parents for mobile phones to play. The reason is very good. You can play. Why can't I watch it? So I always like to watch it with my mobile phone when eating and before going to bed. This is a common phenomenon, although it is a common phenomenon, but we can't think it is right to do so. The solution is that parents should control themselves, shorten the time of watching mobile phones, and let children know what they sometimes watch mobile phones for. How high quality, companies that don't look at mobile phones, guide children to understand and correctly treat the role of mobile phones. Only by setting an example can parents educate their children well.
Family education involves all aspects of life and has various contents, but the task of parenting is arduous and the obstacles are long. This is the responsibility and obligation of parents, which can not be shirked, but can only be adhered to. Although it's a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, I'm tired and happy.