Parents are lifelong teachers of children. When educating children, parents should not be absent, let alone disturb them. In this world, all excellent children are traceable and educated by their parents with hard work and companionship. The same is true of education. Parents work harder than their children in order to gain something. Parents should not bother if they want their children to be excellent.
Preschool children will go through an important sensitive period at every age. Why is it important? Because sensitive children will be particularly persistent in some behaviors. If parents don't understand, they may think that the child is disobedient and deliberately opposes it. In fact, it is a child's exploration of different behaviors at different stages of growth.
Parents who understand the characteristics of their children's growth and seize every sensitive period to support and cooperate with their children will get twice the result with half the effort. For preschool children, each age group has different sensitive periods. Such as hand and mouth sensitive period, language sensitive period, order sensitive period, sensory sensitive period, action sensitive period, social norm sensitive period, reading sensitive period and so on.
What would really wise parents do? Have empathy, see the child's difficulties, and allow the child to cry, feel sad and release. In the meantime, we will continue this process with our children. What can we do and how can we do it better next time this happens? Find solutions to problems, make plans, and act with children.
The process of children's growth requires parents to have an inclusive and long-term mentality. Making mistakes is another way for children to grow up quickly. Accepted children will have greater ability to solve problems and self-discipline in the face of future setbacks.
Sometimes, the role of mother is really difficult to play. You must work and take care of your family. It is inevitable that the pressure will be too great and the mood will collapse. When you can't bear it, please don't forget your identity: the most trusted and dependent mother of your child. Mother's mood is a barometer of the whole family.
Only when the mother's mood is stable and peaceful can the children feel safe and the family be harmonious and warm. A mother with stable emotions teaches her children to treat others with tolerance and look at the world with warm eyes. A gentle, happy and loving mother is an important person in her children's life.