At this moment, what parents should do is not to ask their children the main reasons for their poor mental state immediately, but to give them a loving hug. Wait until the child's mood is stable, then speak softly and understand the reason. Hugging a child often can give him enough confidence to face many difficulties in daily life. Confidence is not achieved overnight. Parents must improve their children bit by bit through words and personal actions. Hugging is a very simple but effective way.
02: Let children have a sense of belonging. People who have just become parents should have a feeling that it will be quieter for the baby to be held in his arms by his father. Mainly because the father's embrace is more intimate and firm, it will give the baby a sense of satisfaction, so in his embrace, the child usually behaves more sedate. All the children are extremely insecure. They are still young and have no ability to deal with emergencies properly, so it is particularly panic for him to solve things in life alone.
In this case for a long time, children's mental health will also be greatly threatened, and finally they will grow up under the capsule of insecurity. This kind of person will feel nervous and worried involuntarily when facing many "big scenes" in his future life. Parents will often hug their children, give them more sense of belonging and make them more confident in everything. Especially when children have to face some "big scenes" such as singing competitions and reading poems, parents' hugs are more effective than encouraging words.
03: Improve parent-child communication and make you and your children closer. In the growing process of our generation, because parents are not together for a long time, or the true feelings between parents and us are too euphemistic, there is basically no such direct and pleasant interaction. In the long run, it is very difficult to communicate and communicate with our parents. The relationship with parents will not be particularly close. In fact, if we hug our children more often, we can enhance parent-child communication and make our relationship with our children closer.
Only when they have a close relationship with their children will they be willing to share with their parents when they encounter something exciting or annoying. When children want to actively share their inner secrets, the "gap" between parents and children will naturally decrease a lot. Only when children want to open their hearts to their parents can they get more useful information from their parents, which can be used as the basis for them to try and face new things.