During the Spring Festival, every family will get together for the New Year. Because there are many busy people at home, children may make some excessive demands or do something out of line. If parents educate them, the elderly may come forward to stop them on the spot. At this time, conflicts often arise. In fact, the Spring Festival is also a good opportunity for education. What should we pay attention to in the face of intergenerational education?

The purpose is to educate children well. Why do you quarrel over children? This is because everyone has a unique experience and communication style, and it is certainly not easy to reach a high degree of consensus on parenting issues.

Choose the right time and make suggestions in an atmosphere of mutual happiness. People have a tendency to accept suggestions when they are in a good mood, and deliberately resist when they are in a bad mood, which leads to the two sides breaking up in discord.

Parents can present some scientific evidence of parenting to the elderly, imperceptibly, so that the elderly can slowly learn and improve their taste in life. Even if the elderly make a mistake, they should pay attention to maintaining their self-esteem and tell them with the help of experts, instead of being aggressive because of a mistake.

When the elderly insist on their own views or practices, and this practice will not bring negative effects to their children, young parents may wish to make some concessions; Appropriate compromise makes them feel that they also have some dominance.

If it is a matter of principle, then we should stick to our own opinions and pay attention to the way of communication. Don't play hardball and make trouble without reason.

Pay attention to the way and tone of conversation when communicating with the elderly. Don't blame the old man at the beginning, and don't talk about the problem in a critical tone. We should speak our views calmly and try to reach a certain degree of agreement with the elderly, because everyone's starting point is the same, all for the good of children.

Parents need to pay attention to themselves, and at the same time, they should fully communicate with the elderly and reach an agreement! As long as you can be reasonable and pay attention to methods, and the goal is for children, I believe the old people will accept it gladly!