Sometimes don't blame too many children, but think more about whether you 17 were rebellious.

Your son has been unable to talk to you for four months, so I want to ask you, does this also mean that you and your son have not talked for four months? Even if the child ignores you, can't you speak first? Is father's majesty that important? From your description, I can see that you and your children are not only a problem of generation gap, but also a problem of communication, understanding and even values! ~ parents can't let go of their face. This is the function of traditional ideas. Laozi is Laozi, and sons are sons. This concept creates communication barriers. Children don't want to tell their parents what they think. Parents want to take care of problems when they see them, but they don't know each other. Then of course, this kind of education is often defeated and fought! ~

In China families, 80% of parents are educating the next generation with their parents' educational methods, without realizing the failure of the previous generation's educational methods. They always think that my parents educate me like this and I educate you like this, which is a one-sided love of education and is not desirable. With the development of society, today's children have more independent thinking, see more worlds and have more ideas. Of course, negative things are more tempting. Parents often worry that their children are addicted to internet addiction, don't listen to teaching, fall in love early, and don't study well. The most common sigh they hear is: "Children are too difficult to educate nowadays" ~ A seemingly ordinary sentence is actually a mistake in their education and they found a fig leaf.

Having said that, I can help you best, but I can't. I also remind other parents to let go of their high family status, communicate with their children on an equal footing and make friends with them. When children are willing to tell you everything, you will find that many things are easy to solve.