However, in the process of education, attention should be paid to the guidance of values, and the truth should not be biased, which will affect the normal psychological development of nieces. Aunt's education method is somewhat similar to scientific education method, but it is specious. As the saying goes? A drop in the ocean is a thousand miles away? . Let's talk about this principle and the correct education method first.
0 1 Education is essentially influenced by the environment. Based on the relationship between education and social life, Dewey proposed that the essence of education is life.
Did Mencius exist in ancient China? Meng Mu moved three times? This story. Liu Xiang's Biography of Women? Volume one? Mother instrument:? Mencius was born with a gentle temperament and was taught three times by his loving mother. ? So, what happened to Saint Amethyst later? Yesterday, Meng Mu chose a neighbor; In Mencius' laziness, she cut the cloth. ? It can be seen that the environment is inseparable from the growth of people, and what kind of environment makes what kind of people.
Tao Xingzhi, the most famous educator in modern China, first advocated it? Life is education? Yes, and put it into educational practice, and achieved good educational results.
For example, Tao Xingzhi invited Yao, a fellow countryman, to teach biology at Xiaozhuang School. Tao Xingzhi asked him to throw the book aside. Want it? Get an education with everyone anytime, anywhere? . Therefore, Yao led students to collect specimens; Invite old farmers who dig medicinal materials to teach; Invite gardeners to teach students how to plant flowers and trees; Experts from China Science Society were also invited to teach students to distinguish biological disciplines and determine their scientific names. The flowers and trees near Xiaozhuang are all covered with famous brands. The biology class is lively and interesting, and students learn really useful biological knowledge. Students like biology class.
Tao Xingzhi's teaching method is essentially different from the current classroom indoctrination education. Trained students must also have two different study habits and ways of thinking.
So now many people begin to pay attention to the influence of original ecological family education on children. Children educated in different family environments can sometimes be very different. Because parents are children's first teachers, they have a lifelong influence on children's behavior habits, thinking patterns and emotional personality. If parents don't teach their children well at first, the teacher may have little effect when he arrives at school.
Now even some schools will assess parents when their children are in primary school, and only students with qualified parents are eligible to become students in this school.
For example, in Dalian Huamei Bilingual School, parents will be assessed when children sign up. If you think children? Should you study more, learn quickly and get high grades? Utilitarianism? Parents blame children for making mistakes? Impatience? Children must do what their parents ask? Controlled? Children like to show the way when they are active? Strong control and so on, the school will hardly accept its own children.
On March 5th, 20 17, Guangzhou Daily reported the electronic screen of a private school in Guangzhou, which showed that our school only recruits parents with bachelor degree or above? .
2019 June 13, an admission interview notice from Shengfei Primary School affiliated to Sichuan Normal University triggered another heated discussion: parents were required to bring their academic credentials for the interview.
Of course, these behaviors are discriminatory. Don't children with low parents and lack of educational ability have the right to education? However, this also reflects the influence of family environment education on children from one side.
This aunt's education is unreasonable, so we should pay attention to the correct value orientation. My aunt's niece stayed away from poor students and fawned on the headmaster in her third year of high school. Judging from the description of this sentence, there is a certain deviation in values. Don't poor students have anything to recommend them? Aren't they worth dating? Won't flattery distort your character?
So this aunt should educate her niece with positive values. The correct education should be like this.
First, educate my niece to be honest and have confidence in life.
Everyone will be influenced by the environment, and students are the critical period for the development of values and personality. I don't have enough energy to change others. Therefore, we should try our best to lead an honest and clean life and avoid contact with immoral, vulgar and negative people, so as not to go astray unconsciously.
Second, educate my niece to study hard and lay a solid foundation for the development of life.
This is the best time for students to concentrate on their studies. After leaving school and entering the society, there is no such pure study time. So we should cherish time, talk less to classmates who don't like learning, and spend more time on reading. If you are friends, you should support and help each other. They should also encourage you (niece) to study more and play less.
Third, educate my niece to be honest in her study and life, and ask if she doesn't understand.
Usually, in your study and life, you should be sincere and enthusiastic about people. In learning, learn from Xueba, and ask if you don't understand. Of course, you should also sincerely thank Xueba for his help. If they have any difficulties in life and study, you (niece) should also help them wholeheartedly.
Fourth, educate nieces and classmates to learn from each other and improve together.
Real schoolmasters know that learning is just behind closed doors, and stealing learning can't reach a high level. To truly master knowledge and understand principles, we must study together with our classmates to form a big magnetic field for learning. In order to make great progress. Always tell others about topics and knowledge. This is the process of applying what you have learned, which will make you (niece) have a more thorough understanding of knowledge and have a deeper impression on it. At the same time, we can learn from each other and establish real friendship with our classmates.
Summary: Education has scientific principles. Only by carrying out education according to scientific principles can we cultivate real talents. Otherwise, no matter how good your grades are, your character and values will be flawed. It will eventually affect a person's social development.