2. Cultivate children's concept of time. Parents should educate their children to strictly abide by the school work and rest system and arrange the time for study and play in a planned way. This includes: arriving at school on time and not being late; After school, go home on time without your parents picking you up. Don't play on the road. Do your homework first when you go home, concentrate on it, and then play after you finish. You can't play while doing it. In addition, it is necessary to cultivate the habit of children eating on time.
3. Cultivate civilized behavior. Ask children to be civilized and polite children, respect elders and the elderly, care for the weak and those in need, and use polite language.
4. Cultivate children's correct posture of standing, sitting and walking. Ask the child to sit like a clock, stand like a pine, walk like the wind and lie like a bow. You can also ask him to recite a few proverbs as a self-requirement. When children eat at home, parents should let their children eat at the same table as adults. They are not allowed to play while eating, and they are not allowed to walk around with bowls, which is not only conducive to the formation of good habits, but also conducive to children's health.
5. Order some extracurricular reading materials for children to enrich their extracurricular knowledge. For example, children, good children, look at pictures and talk, and some children's fairy tales are easy to understand. It is necessary to cultivate children's good habit of loving books. Parents can also tell stories to their children every day and guide them to read spontaneously.
6. To correctly handle the relationship between parents and children, the most important thing is to be good at improving spiritual communication with children, avoid saying things that hurt self-esteem and give children an equal say. Family is the epitome of society. Family exerts a subtle influence on children through unique educational methods such as family environment, family atmosphere and parents' words and deeds, especially parents' words and deeds, which will shape children's character invisibly.
7. Parents should not only judge their children's performance, but also not put too high demands on their children or put too much pressure on them, which will only make them feel highly nervous, oppressed and even afraid. Avoid children staying up late in autumn, and ensure 8~ 10 hours of sleep every night, so that the body has strong immunity.
8. While parents are busy with their livelihood, they must take time to learn more about their children, communicate with their children and teachers, and try their best to master their children comprehensively. The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.