Listen to the child patiently.
Don't scold children when they don't listen to discipline. We should know more about their ideas and try to help them solve their problems. When they find that children also have the right side, they should control their bad emotions and learn to respect them. Don't always talk to them in a commanding tone, and sometimes express your thoughts to them.
Know more about children
After work, parents must take time to communicate with their children, communicate more with their children and their teachers, fully grasp their children's performance at school and at home, get to know them better and solve problems. When their children are really disobedient, they know how to guide them.
Reasoning with children
In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truths in actual situations, so that children can try to think from the perspective of others and truly understand how their actions will affect others. As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can use the way of telling stories.
Let the children experience it.
If children always resist their elders, parents can also let their children experience the consequences of doing something wrong by themselves on the premise of ensuring safety and not having adverse consequences, and let them deeply understand the importance of parental guidance through their own experiences.
Treat children sincerely
When parents communicate with their children, their tone can be softened, making them more acceptable. The communication between parents and children should be sincere and there is no distance. Parents can sincerely express their inner feelings with their children and let them know that parents will be worried about their children's behavior.