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Do you want to "stare" or let the children learn by themselves? How should parents educate their children?
Now that your children have developed good study habits and stable academic performance, since you are busy at work, can you let your children manage their own study and stop studying with them? Personally, I think it is very unwise for you to let go completely now. Although children's growth needs free space very much, maintaining a good parent-child boundary will be conducive to the growth and emotional cultivation of both sides, but there will be countless variables in the process of children's growth, which requires reasonable guidance from adults. No matter how busy you are, you should also look through your child's textbooks, exercise books and test papers when you go home to keep abreast of your child's learning situation.

When you are with your children, you can talk to them about your situation. You can talk about your work first, such as the progress and feelings at work, the problems and puzzles you face at work, and so on. Then ask the children what progress they have made in their studies, what confusion they have, and whether the relationship with their classmates and teachers is smooth. At this time, they can encourage and guide their children in time according to their own learning situation, which can not only cultivate children's good mood, but also form a good parent-child communication model. It is very important, which also makes them understand that although his father is very busy, he is very concerned about his studies, which will give them great comfort and satisfaction emotionally.

If parents stay with them all the time, children will become dependent. Even if your grades are good at present, your grades will drop once your parents are not with you. It is better to let them form a good habit of reading and think for themselves when they encounter problems, instead of asking their parents blindly. Even though they may not do well in the exam temporarily, they will be impressed by their own thinking and will be solved when they encounter similar problems again. You only need to pay attention to whether your child studies hard, and whether you can ask teachers and classmates for advice if you don't understand questions and master good learning methods. It's hard to learn bad.