It is not groundless that boys are naughty and girls are clever. This stereotype is largely caused by the preference for boys over girls. As a girl said, my father always dislikes being too fat and wants to lose weight by himself, while my brother is also very fat. Instead of blaming him, my dad kept letting him eat, saying that he wanted his brother to eat fat for nothing. This is playing tricks on girls and conniving at boys. Only when men and women are equal in the family will it be more conducive to the healthy growth of children and there will be fewer such complaints.

2. I don't care about girls, especially boys.

Many families think it useless for girls to study well. I still have to teach my children at home in the future, so I didn't take it seriously. For boys, it has more to do with marriage, so they will care more and want to train them to become better people. Therefore, you will show indifference to girls and care a little about boys. This is unfair to girls, and everyone should have the right to education, whether it is a girl or a boy.

3. Little things are equal in life, and big things are patriarchal.

For many parents, influenced by modern education, they will gradually change the concept of son preference. But this idea is deeply rooted, and there are many invisible manifestations of son preference in life. Although many parents will achieve equality between men and women in the little things of life, they are still biased towards boys in some key events.

4. Equality only stays in words.

Although many parents verbally admit that men and women are equal, they still can't do it when things really happen. For them, such equality can only be said to be a formalism. All talk and no action will definitely hurt girls' feelings. For girls, it's more like cheating. It's better not to do it.