Rebellious psychology is often characterized by seeking differences and thinking, which is the spark of children's wisdom and the source of creation. Parents should pay attention to it, guide it according to the situation and promote its success.
2. Give children room to grow up. Let go and give your child a chance to grow up. The child is an adult. At this time, there was rebellion and disobedience. It is likely that parents are too strict. In fact, every rebellion represents the growth needs of children.
As parents, we should trust our children, give them some opportunities appropriately, and let them learn to make their own arrangements and learn to think and solve problems independently. Also give children some opportunities to take responsibility.
3. Communicate with children equally. Children grow up and have their own ideas. As parents, they can't give advice to their children as they did when they were young. They should listen to their suggestions more. You can give them advice and help them correct what you think is wrong. Be kind. Never force them to do things according to your idea, which will only make them more rebellious and disobedient.
4. Spend a fixed time with your children every week. No matter how big a child is, it is also a treasure in the hearts of parents. When children are rebellious and disobedient, we should also accompany them appropriately, and find one or two fixed time to accompany them every week. Eat, read and talk about trivial things in life. Even if you don't say anything, don't preach to your child or even start blaming your child again.