I have a tutor in charge of three middle school students, but the parents of the third child are the most troublesome. Why do you say that? Because these parents are all types who want their children to succeed, they can't wait to train their children into geniuses, but their children are pushed too hard, resulting in poor academic performance. When I first went to their home, they told me a lot about their learning process, their expectations and, of course, their requirements for me. At that time, I already wanted to refuse, but when I saw those timid children, I suddenly relented and said that I would try my best to satisfy them.
In the process of my tutoring, parents have been belittling their children, and then they will say how good other children are; They ignore the advantages of children and see the bad side of children; They instill a kind of. Everything is for your own good? The idea that a child is disobedient is disobedient. However, sometimes children clearly make progress and say it is a coincidence. Therefore, a clever child was made so inferior by his parents.
Later, I told my children not to accept it blindly, but to try to tell their parents what they think. So, the child wrote a letter and wanted to tell his parents his inner struggle in words; When my parents saw the letter, they scolded me angrily, saying that I had taught my children badly, and then told me not to go to their house again. Being scolded for no reason is very wronged. But thinking of the child who was almost suppressed by his parents, I had to communicate patiently with his parents again and again.
Fortunately, they finally realized their own problems, and the children gradually became cheerful. And I am most gratified that this child is getting better and better now, and I hope he can shine everywhere!