Four years in college, a dream-chasing journey of self-education. Every September, freshmen with a bright future will step into the ivory tower of their dreams. Perhaps, you left your parents for the first time, lived independently for the first time, and dominated your freedom for the first time ... But don't forget: these four years may be the last four years before you set foot on the job. Therefore, how to fully enjoy these four years and plan them brilliantly is a problem before you. The answer I gave it was "I am the master in my four years!" "
Study: Not just those two weeks.
Perhaps, you will think that teachers in universities will only follow the book on weekdays, and they are also tired of coping as students, so it doesn't matter if they don't attend classes on weekdays, as long as they pass the exam. Some students actually summed up the way to deal with it: a semester lasts at most four months, and the real exams are concentrated in the last two weeks. So, after two weeks of "Desperate Saburo", mark the key points, memorize notes and save the test paper, you're done. The other three months are "happy holidays" outside of study. In fact, this is a huge misunderstanding.
Four years in college, after all, is a formal and systematic four-year education (it is difficult to have such a precious opportunity when you set foot on the job), so you should focus on learning. Some students may complain: "The knower is not as good as the knower, and the knower is not as good as the knower." University major is not my favorite. Where can I invest if I am not interested? And I want to say that while "choosing what I love", we should also learn to "love what I choose". It is lucky to choose a major according to your own interests, but it does not mean that you are not interested in your major, so that you are angry and slack, so that you waste your college time. You know, interest can be cultivated gradually.
Many students go into a negative misunderstanding about how to learn: they are tired of dealing with teachers and study passively, dogmatically and helplessly. In fact, learning is our own business. We should change passivity into initiative and study actively, flexibly and easily. Actually, The Book of Rites. The golden mean has given us the answer: "be knowledgeable, interrogate, ask carefully, distinguish clearly and stick to it." That is to say, we should study extensively, ask questions in detail, think carefully, distinguish clearly and implement effectively. Of course, in addition, most college students also ignore an important part of learning-preview.
In universities, the amount of information in each class is huge, covering dozens or even dozens of pages in textbooks. If you are fully prepared before class, you can better digest and absorb the essence of the class. This can not only cultivate their interest in the major, but also ask specific questions for teachers' advice. You know, teachers in universities are willing to listen, inspire and discuss with you. Being able to teach students to constantly ask new questions is a teacher's greatest success and comfort.
English: a compulsory course for any major.
No matter what major you study in university, whether you choose to work or study abroad after graduation, English as a communication tool is a necessary skill. For most students in China, their listening and speaking ability is generally weaker than their reading and writing ability. To overcome this problem, I suggest combining input and output, that is, combining "input" and "output".
"Input" means paying attention to accumulating language materials, watching more original movies and listening to English broadcasts on weekdays, consciously creating a foreign language environment for yourself and forcing yourself to accept English with your ears. In this way, we can cultivate a sense of language, correct pronunciation and even accumulate thick hair in a relaxed and happy atmosphere. "Output" means speaking English boldly and getting into the habit of making statements frequently, so as to draw inferences from others.
It should also be noted that "input" should have an immersive sense of integration. For example, when learning these videos, we should always grasp the principles of watching, listening, speaking and learning. Because only in this way can listening and speaking skills complement each other and improve in an all-round way.
Family, friendship and love are indispensable.
After entering the university, many students had to leave their parents and childhood playmates, and now they can better appreciate the value of family ties. I suggest that you often call your parents to report your safety, report your study and life, and share interesting things and experiences on campus. At this time, family ties will become stronger and more mellow.
At the same time, college means the beginning of collective life, and collective means that we can get more friendship. Edison said: "Friendship can enhance happiness and relieve pain, because it can double our happiness and share our worries." Without friendship, college life is like an audience without a life track, which will inevitably become lonely and boring. Imagine the transition from the green and ignorant freshman to the mature and steady senior. The classmates around you are undoubtedly witnesses and followers of your growth. It can be said that the friendship between college students is precious and can even run through a person's life.
Of course, it is not easy to get true friendship. You should learn to be easy-going, modest and tolerant. The ancients put it well: "Human nature is evil and modest." When friends get along, we must be modest. While shrinking yourself, try to find and appreciate the advantages of others, which will make you more attractive and attractive.
About love, people always say that it is a beautiful scenery on campus, and some even think that a university that has never been in love is not a complete university. For college students, love is not a "compulsory course", but an "elective course", and love should follow.
In fact, love is a very profound knowledge. Adequate self-awareness is the premise of love. Only by knowing who you are and what you want can you know what kind of person you want and how to pursue your happiness. In love, we reap not only the happiness and pleasure brought by love itself, but more importantly, we can learn how to live in harmony with others, how to cherish each other's feelings, and learn to care about each other instead of being self-centered. A relationship, good or bad, can make a person mature gradually.
Affection, friendship and love are all responsibilities, and everyone should play their role seriously during their four years in college. Only by being responsible with your heart can you have positive results, and a responsible attitude with your heart should be everyone's life criterion.
Self-education: the real purpose of four years of college.
Einstein once defined education as what remains after a person forgets everything he learned in school. After four years of "herding sheep", in addition to learning professional courses well, we should also devote most of our time to various hobbies, so as to realize all-round re-education of ourselves, which may be the real purpose of four-year college education.
Self-education can be knowledge accumulation, sentiment cultivation and personality perfection. In order to achieve these goals, we can soak in the library to read widely, join clubs to sublimate our interests into skills, actively do charity, learn to pay and get peace; Or practice in various companies and institutions to improve communication skills; Or take part in various competitions and practice your courage. Of course, don't forget to exercise every day to keep fit. After all, health is your real capital. In a word, the purpose of our university for four years is to discover our own potential and bright spots. As Professor Tal Ben-shachar of Harvard University said: Your potential is buried deep in your heart, and when you find it, it will shine brilliantly.
In addition, it is worth mentioning that one of the ways of self-education-network, as a fast and flexible means of acquiring knowledge, has been imperceptibly integrated into many aspects of our lives. We can look up information on the internet and learn about the world; You can also set up your own social networks, such as Weibo, Renren and Xin Kai, to make more friends. In short, the Internet has made our world smaller and closer. The only thing that needs vigilance is that everything has two sides, and the network is also a "double-edged sword". University life gives us a lot of free time. At this time, what we need to learn is how to manage time instead of wasting it. Don't be too addicted to the internet, especially online games. There is an old saying: play with things and get tired of it!
The so-called dream is not what you think when you sleep, but what makes you so excited that you can't sleep. Four years in college is a process of chasing dreams. If you set a goal, you will share weal and woe.
Every September, freshmen who look forward to a better future will step into the ivory tower of their dreams. Perhaps, you left your parents for the first time, lived independently for the first time, and dominated your freedom for the first time ... But don't forget: these four years may be the last four years before you set foot on the job. Therefore, how to fully enjoy these four years and plan them brilliantly is a problem before you. The answer I gave it was "I am the master in my four years!" "