First, children must be educated about setbacks to a certain extent. In the process of educating children to become talents, parents must know how to give their children a certain degree of frustration education. The so-called frustration education is to let children bear certain hardships in a specific environment and let them learn to grow up in difficulties, which is what we commonly call adversity to make people become talents.
Many parents regard their children as their darling and don't allow them to be hurt a little. When their children face challenges or difficulties, parents always choose to bear them for them. They don't know how to let their children face challenges and difficulties themselves, and they spoil their children too much.
Therefore, if parents want to educate their children well, they must know the importance of frustration education for their children, and at the same time, they should not spoil and pamper their children too much. We all know that flowers growing in greenhouses can't stand any wind and rain.
Second, we should pay attention to children's mental health. /kloc-a 0/3-year-old girl jumped to her death after quarreling with her family in Dazhou, Sichuan. It can be seen that the girl's heart is too fragile to withstand some setbacks and difficulties. In fact, it also shows that this girl is insecure and even has certain mental health problems. In the process of educating children, parents must attach importance to counseling their children's mental health, especially for adolescent children, some of them will have very rebellious behaviors and actions, and parents should also know how to correct their mistakes in time and guide their children to grow in the right direction.
Third, parents must make their children aware of the preciousness of life. 13-year-old girl who committed suicide by jumping off a building doesn't know how to cherish her precious life. It is really inappropriate and impulsive to choose such an extreme behavior to retaliate against her family. In order to avoid similar incidents, parents must also make their children aware of the preciousness of life in the process of educating them, and let them realize that everyone's life is only once, not just to cherish it.
Fourth, parents should know how to think about problem children from the perspective of children. His behavior as a child may be too childish. Parents should also think from the child's point of view and understand the child. If a child makes a mistake, parents should not just criticize and accuse, but learn to calm down and communicate with the child, understand the child's inner thoughts, let the child consciously realize his own problems, and learn to consciously correct his misconduct.
Educating children well is actually not a simple knowledge, and parents need to invest some time and energy in the process of accompanying their children to grow up. In short, if parents want to educate their children well, they must know how to calm down and care for their children. If you find that you have wrong problems in educating children, you must correct them in time, so as to protect the healthy growth of children.
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