1, the income from early education doubled.

"Yan Family Instructions" said: "Life is young, and the spirit is patented. Think hard and relax when you grow up. You must teach early and don't miss the opportunity. "

Kangxi's "College Training" also emphasizes early education: "It is advisable to teach early, but dare to quit."

The rise and fall of the country and family style in the Eastern Han Dynasty also advocated early education. The Zhou Dynasty ruled for 8 years, with the longest history. It advocated that the transmission of the throne began with prenatal education, and the Queen Mother listened to beautiful music, avoiding sour and spicy tastes, and ordered the Prince of Sangong to teach, which made Zhou Chengwang a success.

2. Determined to achieve something

Zeng Guofan's "Letter from Home" said: "Nothing in the world can be achieved." "Not a saint, is an animal; Don't ask about the harvest, ask about the cultivation. " In his family education, there are many theories of determination. After emphasizing determination, I will demand and be self-disciplined.

Yan's "Family Instructions" also advocates determined education: "Cultivate one's morality and keep one's family in order to govern the world by learning."

Zeng Guofan is also determined to educate his son by treating laziness. Letters from home say: "All mediocre people at all times and all over the world are defeated by the word' lazy'", "laziness leads to laziness", "laziness leads to relaxation" and "diligence leads to laziness", and all kinds of disadvantages are caused by laziness.

3. Lide's legacy

Zhu's "Family Instructions" said: "Although sages are younger than me, I will respect them; Although the unscrupulous are older than me, I will stay away from them. " Zhu attaches importance to moral cultivation, just like "clothes are to the body and diet is to the mouth". You can't live without it for a day, and you can't be careless! "

Sima Guang's "Wen Gong Jia Fan" also emphasizes virtue: "Sages live in the world with virtue and show it with virtue".

Historically, the Lins paid attention to morality and were good at educating future generations. Four descendants of the Lins performed their duties as prime ministers, and three became scholars. The emperor personally presided over the court examination 2 1 time, and the Lins' list was named 183 times. "Without forest, there must be forest when opening the list" has become a model of family style. Later, Lin Zexu's Family Instructions paid attention to the virtue of value orientation: "More virtue and more money hurt his ambition; Foolish and rich, then increase it. "

Be thrifty in training and show it to your son.

Sima Guang's "Training frugality to show health" says: "From frugality to luxury, from luxury to luxury, it is difficult", which is an admonition to Sima Kang and shows the inevitability of "frugality" and "luxury". "Frugality can make a name for itself, and luxury will perish".

Zhuge Liang's Commandment also advocates frugality: "Be quiet to cultivate one's morality, and be frugal to cultivate one's morality".

Zhu Bailu's "motto of managing the family" is also frugal: "It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal, but it is difficult to think about it."

5, loyalty and filial piety should be established.

When Su Shi was ten years old, he read Hanshu and admired Fan Pang's devotion to loyalty. "I told my mother,' My son is not loyal and filial,' and Fan said,' I am proud of my son'". Su Shi asked his mother, what would you do if I were like Fan Pang? Su Mu said, "If you become Fan Pang, I will be a model."

Lin's family rules also strongly emphasize loyalty and filial piety: "Filial piety begins for the family and ends for the country. When filial piety is transformed into loyalty, it means showing filial piety to the whole family. This is the greatest filial piety. " "Filial piety is the foundation of the country." If you are not filial to your loved ones, you cannot be loyal to your country; It will become the mother of society. "

6, the inspector to establish this.

"Biography of Women" said: "Mencius was born with a gentle temperament and was taught three times by his loving mother when he was young." "Meng Mu used to choose neighbors" and "Meng Mu used to move, but his son didn't learn, and he broke the loom", which is the crown of Meng Mu's learning, a model of supervising teachers and teaching mothers.

There is also a famous inspector in Yan Jiaxun: "You can keep a hundred copies forever, and you will not be a villain for a thousand years." Admonish children and grandchildren "don't be arrogant and lazy, clean up the door and don't fall." "Yan Jiaxun is difficult to learn" says: "It is better to accumulate thousands of dollars. Those who are eager to learn and valuable have no learning. "

7. Cook and build a letter

"Everything is Wrong" contains: Ceng Zi's wife's city, his son cried. His mother said, "If that woman gives it back, she will kill that woman." When his wife came back from the market, Ceng Zi wanted to catch a pig and kill it. The wife stopped: "I play with the baby." Ceng Zi said, "Babies have nothing to do with play. Babies must understand and listen to their parents. Today's bullying is bullying by the adopted son, not bullying by the teacher. " Then cook it.

It is said that Zeng Shen's wife and son went to the fair, and his son cried. His mother said that she would go back and kill pigs for her son. When I got home, I saw that Zeng Shen was going to catch a pig and kill it, but his wife stopped him. He said it was a joke. Zeng Shen thought that he could not break his word to his son, and finally killed the pig to win the trust.

8, take an examination of mountains should be strict.

Before Su Shi wrote Shi Zhongshan, in order to find out the origin of Shi Zhongshan's name, he took his son Mai Su on a field trip and wrote an article that never died.

Su Shi's father and son tested the mountain, saying that "it is against strictness to judge whether something exists or not without looking"!

9. The second generation of "leading by example"

Twelve articles, such as Seeking Virtue, Inspecting Officials, coachable, Advocating Thrift, Rewarding and Punishing, and Chongwen, and The Outline of the Emperor, teach the prince to be a monarch and set an example. "Safety encourages waste, what's the point?"

Liu Bang, Emperor Gaozu of Han Dynasty, also wrote a letter to the second generation of Liu Ying: "Your current book is not as good as mine", "You can study hard and learn from yourself every time". The second generation of Liu, learn from the example and govern the country by virtue.

10, "patriarchal clan system" warns future generations

"Family Instructions of Bao Zheng" contains the patriarchal clan system: "Any official who commits criminal abuse and his descendants shall not be released to their own families; After his death, he must not be buried in a big coffin. If you don't follow my wishes, you are not my descendant. Putting stones on the east wall of the main hall is also called expelling family members. Bao Zheng's descendants have never humiliated their ancestors. His son Bao Shou and grandson Bao Yongnian are honest and clean, leaving a clean voice.