Some parents are very strict with their children, so whenever their children make mistakes, they will not calmly understand and reason, but scold first and then beat. I have always believed that children will not succeed without struggle. Treating children like this will not only make them truly realize their mistakes, but also leave a shadow in their hearts, and their personality will easily become more extreme.
Children's imitation ability is very strong, so parents' words and deeds have a deep influence on children. Parents should set a good example for their children. Lead by example. If there is something wrong with parents' conduct, children will only follow suit. How can we educate children well? Therefore, it is really important for adults to set an example.
Parents should communicate well and have a unified opinion on the education of their children. Don't tell me what to say, and don't scold each other in front of the children. In this way, children will be at a loss and don't know who to listen to. And the prestige of adults in front of children is gone. Over time, it will be more difficult to discipline children.
Disciplining children with intimidation will also weaken their self-concept. If parents say, "Do it again next time, you will look good!" Every time children hear these words, they will be afraid and sad, thus generating a sense of fear for their parents.