Family education mainly includes content. Education exists in all aspects of our lives. It is said that we should cherish learning opportunities, persist in studying hard, and live up to our youth and ourselves. Let's look at the main contents of family education.

Family education mainly includes 1 1. The main contents of family education include literacy education, courtesy education and moral education. There are many kinds of family education. When parents choose educational content, they should choose according to their children's age and personality, so as to understand their shortcomings and deficiencies more quickly.

2. Literacy education includes public moral education, discipline education and friendship education. Literacy education is of special significance to children. Children need to know their state and situation in public, and also know that when they do anything, they should control their words and deeds according to the situation at that time.

3. Politeness education includes respect for teachers, good manners, compassion and so on. Politeness is the normal state of life. Parents should spread the habit of greeting when their children are young, which can expand their language ability and let them know the names and friendliness of people around them.

4. Moral education includes ideological education, study education and life education. Moral education involves many aspects, so parents should convey the contents of daily life when their children are sensible, so that children will not feel that what their parents do is taken for granted.

Children's growth needs family education and school education, and parents should understand their adaptability and thoughts in order to find the correct educational orientation.

Family education mainly includes content 2. The role of family education:

Family is the place where children receive education at the earliest, and parents are the teachers who receive education at the earliest. Family education plays a fundamental role in children's growth. Suhomlinski, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, once stressed: "Neither school education without family education nor family education without school education can accomplish the extremely detailed and complicated task of cultivating people." This shows that family education is indispensable in children's growth.

UNESCO proposed that teenagers in the 2nd/kloc-0th century should have "four societies", namely, learning to learn, learning to survive, learning to develop and learning to get along with others. Children are the flowers of the motherland and the endless reserve army of the nation. Froebel said: "The fate of a country is not so much in the hands of those in power as in the hands of mothers." This sentence vividly shows that family education is very important. Parents should establish an overall concept and let their children understand that "every man is responsible for the rise and fall of the country."

The significance of family education:

Throughout the history of human civilization, what has never changed is that parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. Family is a person's first class and a lifelong school. The national education platform is supported by three pillars: family education, school education and social education. Modern school education and social education are supported by legal norms, scientific guidance and modern technology, while family education is almost in a natural and primitive state, lacking scientific guidance, ignoring or even contradicting the role of modern technology.

As children grow older, their world outlook and values are constantly improving. Children will come out of the ivory tower built by their parents and get in touch with the more complicated world outside. The truth, goodness, beauty, falsehood and ugliness in society will also bring more intuitive feelings to children. Children's minds are immature, so family education is particularly important.

For the inevitable social ugliness, parents should give timely guidance, do not blindly escape, improve their children's ability to distinguish, and at the same time pay attention to their words and deeds at any time and set an example. There is an old saying: "Take care of your family, take care of your family, take care of your country, take care of your country." The phrase "raise a good family, govern the country and make the world peaceful" means that your country can become more prosperous only if your family is good.

Expand the secrets of family education

On Family Democracy

I agree with Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University: I don't think education is happy. Please don't give in to your children in the name of love.

Nowadays, the ethics of many families are reversed. At home, my son is not in charge. Among my students, children whose parents are in charge at home generally have excellent academic performance and high moral cultivation. You eat my food, drink mine and use mine. Why don't you listen to me? Bullies often reprimand their children like this, and finally, the parent becomes the father of the bully. Facts have proved that in family education, the success rate of children in families where one parent has the final say is extremely high.

Democracy in the family should be cultivated slowly. When children's cognitive level is close to that of their parents, they can reach an agreement through consultation, so that children can understand that democracy is hard-won. Many parents educate their children under the guise of democracy and the banner of love, which is indulgence. A minor defeated an adult, and the result was quite terrible.

About learning interest and happiness

Don't believe that learning is fun. High-end learning is boring, not annoying is interest. Few people think that learning is happy. If there is happiness, it is also the happiness of getting high marks through study. If a person can feel happy in his study, he may become a master. Most people don't. Most people have to learn, not for a certain purpose. Therefore, quality and will are the real good teachers.

I believe that our children belong to one of the majority. Why is learning happy? It goes without saying that learning is bound to be painful. Good grades basically come from students' good habits. When they concentrate on what they do, they accumulate over time, and one day he accidentally becomes the first place, which he can't even think about.

On Motivation in Education

At present, most of our education for children is encouragement, commonly known as "wearing a top hat", and some experts say that good children are exaggerated. I really disagree. It is right to encourage children to have self-confidence appropriately, but it cannot be excessive. The contrast that a child with this kind of education faces in society is enough to destroy him and push him to the abyss.

Can education be without disciplinary measures? Education can be completed by encouragement alone? In my opinion, there is a price to pay for making mistakes. We should tell our children that this society is cruel and we should be prepared to suffer a lot of grievances.

About words and deeds

The purpose of education is to let the next generation surpass the previous generation, first surpass their parents, and then surpass their own children, so as to tap their potential to the greatest extent.

Some parents bought a set of teaching materials in order to let their children learn a certain course well, and they worked hard with their children. I am really touched ... I really admire some parents who never watch TV, play mobile phones or surf the Internet in order to set an example for their children ... Do children's struggles have to ruin their parents' happiness? How far can such a child go?

In my opinion, the role of parents should be to ignite their children's positive passion, not to burn themselves desperately in an attempt to illuminate their children. How many parents burn their lives to ashes, and their children's future is dark. Only a child with a strong heart can be in an invincible position, and bad style can't affect him. Help children surpass themselves, make new progress every day, strive to do better today than yesterday, plan to do better tomorrow than today, and plan a positive and beautiful vision is more important than anything else.

About the exam results

I put it at the end because I don't want to talk about it, because I think it is too minor compared with the first five points. But I have to say. In China, it is so important. Most parents regard grades as the only goal of education. I think the only score that can be respected should be the result of the college entrance examination. As a teacher of a provincial model high school, I have seen the ups and downs of children's grades, the helplessness of parents, and the tears of children, so I can better see the torture of scores on parents and children.

Therefore, in the nine-year compulsory education stage, when the child is still young physically and mentally, don't sacrifice the child's healthy psychological and physical growth for the score. It's too much to ask for a hundred flowers in primary schools. If the child gets a score of 100, he will be given a bonus, and he will also take photos as a souvenir and publicize it. If the score is 100, there are no shortcomings and loopholes.

How far can a child with a grade of 100 go? Chen Shengshen, a master of mathematics, wrote an inscription for the junior class of the Chinese University of Science and Technology: Don't take the exam 100. Zhu Qingshi explained that students with original ecology can generally get a score of 70-80, and a score of 100 requires several times of efforts, and they must be very skilled to make no mistakes. To get this score of 100, a lot of time and resources need to be wasted, which is equivalent to applying 10 times of chemical fertilizer to the land. What is wasted is the passion and creativity of children's learning.

In the face of scores, I have no hesitation in choosing to believe that children are inexhaustible motive force, and parents' indifference may be the last straw on children. As a far-sighted parent, the process is more important than the result. Only a perfect process can have a regretless result. Children's desire to be the first is innate, just like a tree desperately growing to the sky. In order to get more sunshine and rain, this is not the function of education, but the instinct of biology.

What is the function of education? I think it means that parents pay attention to, look forward to and watch, remove weeds and pests next to small trees in time, and correct them at the first time when the storm blows the small trees crooked, instead of pulling out the seedlings to encourage them.

Family education mainly includes three contents: the significance of family education.

Family education is an important part of the national education system and the foundation, supplement and extension of social education and school education. Family education accompanies and influences a person's life and is very important for a person's growth. Educator Cai Yuanpei said: "Family members are the first school in life." Recognizing the important role of family education is of great significance to each of us, each family and even the whole society.

As far as social structure is concerned, the family is the most basic unit of society. Building a good family style and promoting family virtues is the most important foundation for building a harmonious society and an important symbol of the degree of social civilization. From the perspective of human development sequence, family is the initial place for individual life growth.

Five cores of parenting education:

1, family education is far greater than school education.

2. Childhood education is far greater than adult education.

3. Parent-child relationship is far greater than parenting education.

The relationship between husband and wife is far greater than that between parents and children.

Parents should study hard and make progress every day.

The biggest difference between family education and school;

1. Family education is personalized education, and individual care, guidance and education for children must be completed by parents, which is irreplaceable by schools; Schools, on the other hand, educate most students, providing only a public and universal education, requiring a unified timetable and curriculum, and it is difficult to really pay attention to the differences of each child.

2. Family education is a lifelong and exemplary education. Judging from the time and space of life, children spend most of their time at home with their parents. School is only a short period of life for children, so the influence of family environment on a child's growth is much greater and longer than that of school.

3. From the educational content, the tasks of family education are mainly life education, personality education and behavior development education, which are different from those of schools.

4. From the perspective of legal responsibility and rights, children and parents have a natural blood relationship, which is irreplaceable by schools and teachers. Therefore, every family guardian should have the responsibility to educate children.

Good family education is a powerful guarantee for children's success and a good recipe for maintaining social harmony and stability;

Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of parents. The first education children receive comes from their parents and families. Good family education is very important for their growth. The results show that a good family environment can keep children happy and upward, and happiness is the way to success.

Parents hope that their children will succeed in the future and become the pillars of society. To do this, we must first create a good family growth environment for our children, which is the foundation and premise. Family environment is mainly divided into external environment and internal environment. External emphasis refers to the richness of the material level, while internal emphasis refers to the influence of family atmosphere, which often plays a decisive role in the whole family education.

Some suggestions on family education;

Paying attention to and strengthening family education is a necessary guarantee for children's growth. The famous German educator Froebel said: "The fate of a country is not so much in the hands of the authorities as in the hands of the mother." This sentence highly summarizes the key role of parents in educating their children. To do a good job in family education, we think we should start from the following aspects:

First of all, we should teach students according to their aptitude.

"Expecting children to succeed" is the wish of every parent. In order to achieve this goal, some parents ignore the objective facts, often "help" and "promote" their children's growth with wishful thinking, adopt some educational methods to encourage their children's growth, and take radical measures, which backfire and lead to serious tragedies. In fact, when everyone is born, it means that he begins to leave his mother and become an independent person, but his acquired development is closely related to his parents' education.

"Teaching children is like planting trees". Parents should work hard on "roots", give full consideration to children's own personality characteristics, attach importance to the gradual or individualized needs of children's psychological and behavioral development, and pay attention to methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude in the education process. It is necessary to treat each child differently, insist on making an education plan based on reality, and set training goals scientifically and reasonably, which should not only conform to reality, but also be close to life. At the same time, it is necessary to meet the individual needs of children and let them grow up healthily and happily along their favorite and correct development path.

Second, we should pay attention to methods.

Family education seems simple, but it is actually very learned. Different families adopt different education methods, and the path of children's growth will be very different, and the final growth trajectory will be different. In the long-term relationship, what methods parents adopt to educate and cultivate their children determines what kind of person and fate their children will become in the future.

Therefore, in a sense, the future competition is not so much the competition of children as the competition of parents, and in the final analysis, the competition of educational methods. Good educational methods can cultivate excellent children. On the contrary, it can not only cultivate children's good behavior habits, but also affect their normal growth. We often say that "children are copies of their parents", and children are like a copier, reflecting their parents' thoughts, words and deeds, style of work and dealing with others.

Children have the qualities of the parents. Children's good behavior and bad behavior reflected in their daily life are the result of parents' education and influence. As the saying goes, those who are near Zhu Zhechi are black. Parents' words and deeds, expressions, demeanor, behavior patterns, emotional attitudes, living habits, etc. They are all directly imitated by children. In this sense, when educating children, we must pay attention to methods. Parents should be consistent in words and deeds, consistent in appearance, scientific in methods and proper in ways. Only in this way can we receive the ideal education and training effect.

Third, we should respect each other.

The distance between people is terrible, even between parents and children. As we all know, today's family education is no longer one-way, but two-way interaction; Not condescending, but equal respect; It's not dominant, it's recessive. Parents are not only educators of children, but also lifelong learners. Children should not only meet their parents' material needs, but also need sincere communication with their parents.

Therefore, in family education, parents should communicate well with their children, get to know each other, put themselves in their shoes and give them more care. It is necessary to take care of children's thoughts and understand their needs, and to communicate in depth on issues that children care about, so as to enhance understanding and resolve differences in communication. To do a good job in family education, parents should be good at being listeners, be able to understand children's views and emotional demands, and be able to think about problems and make decisions from the perspective of children. Only in this way can family relations be harmonious and family education achieve the expected results.

Fourth, we should strengthen moral education.

The cultivation of moral choice ability is the core of family education. It is often said that if intellectual education fails to keep up, children will become defective; If sports training is not done well, children can easily become waste products; If moral education is not well grasped, children will become dangerous goods. And where is the root of moral education? At home. Everything parents say and do at home is an act of moral education, and every child's behavior can be found in parents.

At present, some parents always complain that their children are unruly and disobedient. The biggest confusion is the "disconnection between knowledge and practice". As everyone knows, it is precisely because some parents' own behavior concepts are not in place that they mislead their children and let them develop bad habits, especially in moral education. Parents should pay more attention. Instead of always instilling words, it is better to lead with actions. For example, we should set an example in respecting the old and loving the young, being helpful and being polite to guests, and educate children to develop good moral quality with practical actions.

The material life of modern society is extremely rich. It is necessary to teach children to "control their own desires", so that they can establish a correct outlook on life, values and world outlook, stand firm on moral literacy issues such as helping the elderly and dare to reach out.