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How do women spend their beautiful first night?

How to spend a wonderful first night is a concern of every girl who is going to get married. Some people say that it is very important to have sex for the first time and the first few times on the wedding night. If it is not good, it will affect the sexual life between husband and wife in the future and affect feelings. Of course, it is good to be satisfied with sex for the first time and several times before. However, some people are not very satisfied, because newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge. Because they have just come into contact, it is normal to be nervous, shy and afraid. However, it is better to have a wedding night. Please note the following points:

1. Pay attention to the hygiene of external genitalia. On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash the external genitals with warm water and neutral soap. Because of shopping and entertaining relatives and friends, newlyweds are busy and tired, men's skin scales increase and women's vaginal secretions increase. If it is not cleaned, it is very unsanitary and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

2. Take contraceptive measures. If both men and women don't want to have children right away and don't take birth control pills, both husband and wife have concerns. The woman is more afraid of pregnancy, so her mind can't be highly concentrated and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears condoms, both sides have no worries, concentrate and have satisfied sex life.

3, close cooperation, mutual understanding when starting sexual life, both sides will feel shy, especially the woman is more obvious, the psychological state is more complicated, and the spirit is a little nervous. You should let your husband move gently, and you can try several times at a time. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax, quickly cause sexual excitement, and have more vaginal secretions and good lubrication, which can reduce the pain caused by sexual intercourse and hymen abrasion.

4. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen.

After the hymen was broken, there was some slight pain and a little bleeding. You should try using sterile gauze or absorbent cotton, preferably once every 2-3 days to prevent the wound from becoming inflamed. If the hymen breaks and there is a lot of bleeding and the pain is unbearable, you should see a doctor.

Reminder: Sometimes, because the female hymen is thicker or the hymen hole is smaller, or the male sexual intercourse is rough, there may be more bleeding after the hymen is torn. In the worst case, not only the hymen is cracked, but also the labia minora wall is torn, resulting in massive bleeding.

5. Treat premature ejaculation correctly.

In the first sexual intercourse, the man may have premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, leading to sexual intercourse failure. You should forgive this situation. It's not premature ejaculation After marriage, with the growth of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of sexual experience, the two sides will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.

Hymen is a fold at the entrance of vagina, which is only found in humans and horses. It seems to have no real biological significance. If a woman is born with a closed hymen, it is necessary to cut the hymen at menarche to let menstrual blood flow out. You may have an incomplete hymen at birth, or your hymen may tear during exercise the day after tomorrow. If there is no rupture before, the hymen will be torn or stretched during the first sexual life. If there is a laceration, there will be vaginal bleeding, but some people will not. If you are not bleeding, don't allow others to accuse you of not being a virgin. A virgin means that she has never experienced such a sexual life, but it doesn't mean that she has an unbroken hymen for the first time.

When both men and women have sex for the first time, they should pay attention to personal hygiene before and after sexual intercourse to ensure the health of both sides and the harmony of sexual life. Generally, the following measures should be taken:

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Before sexual intercourse, if possible, you should take a bath first, wash the sweat clean and get rid of the smell of sweat, so as not to make the other person feel disgusted and disgusted when he is in bed. When taking a hot bath, we should pay special attention to cleaning the external reproductive organs, removing the dirt on the penis, especially the dirt and mud on the glans groove of the glans penis and the skin scales with long foreskin, and removing the dirt in the labia majora and the folds of the labia majora to avoid bringing these dirt into the vagina during sexual intercourse. Bathing with warm water can also accelerate blood circulation, produce benign stimulation to reproductive organs and be good for sexual life. If you don't have the conditions to take a warm bath, you should also wash the external genitals with a basin of warm water. If possible, both men and women can spray a little perfume on the chest, forehead, armpit and other parts in the past. This perfume gives people a pleasant feeling and can stimulate sexual desire. But when spraying perfume, don't spray it on the genitals, so as not to cause inflammation of the reproductive organs.

2. Change underwear.

After bathing or scrubbing, put on clean underwear.

3. Brush your teeth and rinse your mouth.

It is very important to brush your teeth and rinse your mouth before sexual intercourse. Husband and wife share the same bed, with their heads against their heads. They face each other when whispering, and they face each other when kissing. If your mouth stinks, it will make the other person feel sick and disgusted, thus reducing sexual desire. So after taking a shower and washing your face on the first night, you must brush your teeth and rinse your mouth.

4. Put toilet paper or clean towel under the bride's buttocks and vagina.

When having sex for the first time, the hymen is damaged and blood will flow out. During sexual intercourse, when the penis twitches, semen and secretions in the vagina may also be taken out. In order not to dirty the sheets and plates, toilet paper or clean towels and cloth should be used before sexual intercourse to form a thick cushion under the bride's buttocks and vaginal opening. When sexual intercourse stops, fold the mat and take it off.

5. Prepare toilet paper and clean towels.

It is used to wipe each other's genitals after sexual intercourse, and cleaning after sexual intercourse is more important. After sexual intercourse, when the man pulls the penis out of the vagina, the woman can hold toilet paper in both hands and wrap the penis with paper in one hand to make the mucus on the penis not drip; The other hand covers the vaginal opening with toilet paper from the bottom of the vaginal opening to prevent mucus in the vagina from flowing to the anus and buttocks. The man can use toilet paper to help the woman wipe her vulva. Although this kind of mutual wiping is a trivial matter, it will generate gratitude in each other's hearts, which is undoubtedly an extra compensation for sexual life and is conducive to enhancing feelings. If you don't feel tired after sexual intercourse, you'd better wash your genitals with warm water immediately. Vagina has the function of self-cleaning. Therefore, after sexual intercourse, don't wash the vagina with water, and don't wipe it with toilet paper or towel, so as not to damage the vagina lining and destroy its defense function.