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Six Educational Attitudes and Their Influence on Children's Personality
In recent years, many scholars have investigated and analyzed parents' educational attitudes and found that different educational attitudes lead to different personality characteristics.

Spoiled type

Only children are easily spoiled by their parents. As a result, children are prone to dependence, difficult to leave their parents, lack the ability to adapt to the environment, and it is difficult to adapt to society in the future. Spoiling is also easy to develop negative characters such as being spoiled, overbearing, excessive desire, presumptuous and self-centered.

laissez-faire

Some parents use busy work as an excuse, or think that their children are fine and leave them alone. Such children often play alone and do whatever they want, and it is easy to form an unrestrained and arrogant passive character. Moreover, due to their lack of social experience, once they are tempted by bad people, they are easily deceived and embark on the road of crime.

Severe and rude type

Some parents believe in the feudal education of "playing a dutiful son well, not a gifted scholar" and take harsh measures against their children. Although parents' wishes are good, this method of suppressing autocracy not only fails, but also makes children hostile to their families, rebellious towards their parents and forms a rude character. Excessive humiliation by parents will seriously hurt children's self-esteem and lead to their inferiority.

Neglect type

Children often become "forgotten people" because of disharmony or parents' divorce. Such children are prone to jealousy, emotional instability, poor self-control, and even world-weariness and suicide. Such children are also prone to their own way and bohemian character, and are easily tempted by bad people to commit crimes.

Contradictory type

Parents have different attitudes towards their children's education, and even one parent covers up their children's mistakes, leaving them at a loss or having nothing to fear, thus encouraging his bad behavior. Or let the children be indecisive and tell lies to please both sides.

Democratic and harmonious type

A democratic, harmonious and education-oriented family can easily make children form diligent, brave, honest, confident, happy and enterprising characters, which is an educational attitude that should be advocated.