Is it useful for parents to "growl" after children make mistakes?
(1) Parents should know the significance of self-reflection in front of their children. Parents need to set an example, accept punishment instead of their children, and let the children calmly admit that they made a mistake. If the child shows no signs of improvement after making a mistake, it may be that he really doesn't know where he is wrong. After all, the child is not very big. For example, some children are extremely excited at night, making noise or shouting in the room.
Parents should tell their children that neighbors upstairs and downstairs are resting, which will disturb the rest of neighbors upstairs and downstairs and cause conflicts between neighbors upstairs and downstairs. Even it is illegal to educate children severely.
(2) Don't be angry, don't shout loudly that children need time to reflect, parents need to tell their children that their practices are unreasonable, and leave the rest to their children to deal with, which will be better than endless pointing fingers. Hold your temper, don't lose your temper with children casually, even if you don't say a word, you can achieve good teaching results. If you are too angry, you will always make your children rebel. Reasoning with your child calmly and seriously will make your child listen to your heart.
(3) Pay attention to the ways and occasions of education. There are many ways to educate children to "protect" their self-esteem in public places, and the education of beating and cursing is the least desirable, especially if there is no "beating and cursing education" for children outside. No matter what is wrong, it is easier for children to accept it by using appropriate methods than educating or scolding them in public places.
(4) often expose the child's previous mistakes. Parents who do this wrong should tell the truth and don't always mention their children's past shortcomings. This will only increase children's dissatisfaction and burden, which is not conducive to children's future study and daily life. Exposing shortcomings in education will stimulate children's self-esteem and make them unhappy.
Educating children is a lifelong skill of parents. We should learn, understand children's feelings, recognize children, guide children and let them grow up in a harmonious environment. Get rid of the education of beating and cursing, children will be happier and develop excellent personality. When a child makes a mistake, it is also a difficult process for the child, and it is also a precious growth attempt for the child. Parents need to guide their children, let them know what is wrong and right, and firmly believe that their children will get better and better!