Let's look at the difference between the poor and the rich in educating their children.
In order to let his children experience life, a boss who opened his own shop let them sell luminous balloons in the square to reap his harvest.
On New Year's Eve, there were many people in the square, and two customers left a deep impression on the father and son.
The first customer is a mother and son, and the little boy's eyes are attracted by the flashing balloon. So he begged his mother to buy him one. Finally, the mother didn't hold back her child's coquetry and bought one for her child. As a result, the little boy's father came from a distance and accused him loudly: "All you know is to want these useless things and waste money."
Then he dragged the child away with great strides, and kept saying, "If you don't study hard, you will come here to sell balloons in the future." The father and son selling balloons just smiled helplessly when they heard these words.
Later, a mother and daughter passed by, and the girl was taken away by this beautiful balloon. She took her mother's hand and said, "Mom, I like this balloon very much. Can you buy me one? " Contrary to the previous customer's situation, the mother readily agreed to the child's request.
The boss looked at the remaining two balloons and thought of giving one to the little girl and the other to his son. But the little girl's mother decisively rejected the boss's kindness. The child's mother said to the child, "What we want needs to be obtained through our efforts, but if we don't work hard, it is wrong to take other people's balloons for nothing."
The little girl listened carefully to her mother's instructions and then nodded, so they thanked her and left. The boss watched carefully and the mother and daughter got into a Mercedes. The previous customers were waiting for the bus on the platform, and the gap between the rich and the poor was obvious.
There are great differences between the poor and the rich in the way of educating their children. The latter focuses on the education of children's sense of experience, while the former educates children through intimidation and threats. And the educational methods of the rich can easily make children succeed in self-reflection. Let's see how the rich educate their children.
The feeling of experiencing is very different from that of teaching children. Preaching will only make children feel bored or even bored, and the feeling of experience can make children realize the experience brought by life, so as to better educate them. And parents also need to educate their children in a larger pattern, so that children can gain experience in trivial matters of life.
In life, parents always set up some negative views to educate their children, such as telling them that if they don't study hard, they will pick up garbage and beg for food, or they will be sad if they don't work hard when they are young, but these examples can't inspire their children's hearts, but will make them lose confidence.
Chen of the Song Dynasty wrote in "A Record of the Stone Forest": "Nothing is difficult in the world, only if you put your mind to it."
Therefore, it is best for parents to set some positive examples for their children and stimulate their determination to make progress. For example, it doesn't matter if their grades are not good at the moment. When Su was a child, she came last in a row, and later she worked hard to become an academician of China Academy of Sciences.
As the saying goes: "Greedy for small and cheap, eat big losses." Greedy is cheap, and there are many losses. Therefore, parents should educate their children not to be insatiable when they are young, but to learn to be "contented". Only those who learn to be satisfied will be happy.
On the contrary, if children don't know satisfaction, they will fall into their own obsession, which may eventually lead to irreparable consequences.
"Diligence can make up for mistakes" is a well-known truth of all parents, and it is also very practical, of course, because the experience gained from long-term practice will always exceed those who are complacent with only a little achievement, so diligence is only good, not bad.
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