Feeling is better than behavior, behavior is better than preaching, preaching is better than beating and cursing, and beating and cursing is better than indifference.

It's better to be good than shout it out. Parents should do what they ask their children to do first, otherwise they have no right to ask their children to do so.

Rule number one, no matter how rich you are, avoid unnecessary waste. Unnecessary waste is very important for children's personality development. Parents should do it themselves first.

Rule 2: If you want your children to read, first of all, you should create a reading environment at home. The best way is for parents to read and convey the happiness of reading. Reading is a very important foundation for children to form an independent personality.

There are two important points in raising children.

The first is exercise,

The second is reading,

First, let's read. The happiness of reading itself is slowly passed on to children, forming a happy neural link.

Rule 3: Stand up when you fall and hand over the first step of responsibility to your child. Tell the child that this is your responsibility, and you will be responsible if something goes wrong.

Rule four, set an example and abide by the rules. From crossing the road, whether to obey the traffic rules has a great influence on children. No matter how small things are, you should set an example, and parents can do it right.

Rule five, every minute is late, and you should apologize to your child for being late for one minute. For the sake of your children, parents must learn to be punctual and make their children a punctual person. Parents must first do this.

Rule seven, if you say it, you must honor any promise to your child.

Rule 8 Become a frequent visitor to the library. Reading is the most romantic education, which opens the door to knowledge for children. Set this example first and go to the library often to make it your first choice for leisure.

Rule nine, the family is full of wonderful music, which is the best way to make children like music. Subtle music education is the best, and parents will like it if they like their children.

Only a harmonious family atmosphere can teach a child with a peaceful personality. If we want children to have a good personality, we should keep calm in personality and emotion when interacting with children.

Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. You said 1000 sentence, why not give a demonstration?

If you want your child to change, you must change first.

It is human nature to be recognized by others and not like being denied.

Once you want him to do something, change it, which means you are not good and you want to change it.

Once he feels negative, then he will resist and I won't do anything you say.

It is better to do it for the children in turn.

The second child is our protector.

Every child, deep down, is trying to save his parents' emotions and their relationship, and wants to be the protector of the family. However, some parents can't see their children and the efforts behind them. In the end, these children are also desperate and think they can do nothing. As a result, children gradually grow up distorted and become bad parents like their parents.

As a parent, after learning and growing up, you can tell your children that their parents' problems are their parents' and their emotions are also their parents'. You are only their child, not the emotional undertaker of their parents. You don't need to make sacrifices for any behavior of your parents. When parents help children express their unconscious motives, children can let go of that persistence.

Son, you don't need to bear the fate of your parents or save their lives. All you have to do is be a child. ?