Some people say that women are not good at negotiation or women take on too many family responsibilities, which may be true. But it may also be related to the idea that women are instilled by their parents since childhood. What educational methods may ruin your daughter's future? The education of girls is different from that of boys. Parents with daughters should pay attention to six points:

1. Teach her to be polite and taciturn.

There is a world of difference between politeness and silence, but girls seem to be pushed to the latter. We often use it? Is a girl honey or spice or everything beautiful? Teach her to be a ... Cute? . We educate girls in various ways to be friendly, avoid all conflicts, don't disturb others and be content with the status quo. This is a lovely girl.

But this will make girls afraid to speak in class and work meetings when they grow up, so as not to be considered unfair. They also dare not fight for higher salaries in the workplace because they don't want to offend potential employers.

2. Buy her toys with bright gender colors.

Buy her only pink toys in the first three years of her life, so your daughter may decide that pink is her favorite color, because? Is that what girls should like? . Studies have shown that this is not a natural genetic tendency, but is caused by parents and social factors.

A study in 2009 found that 3 1%? Girls? Toys emphasize appearance, including plastic cosmetics and doll skirts, while boys' toys encourage creativity, exploration, competitiveness and problem-solving ability, which are needed by excellent employees and leaders.

3. Only praise her for her beauty

Indeed, she is a lovely doll, and the curly ponytail is so charming that you can't help but exclaim. But at the same time, she is very good at reading poetry, and she is also an architectural genius who stacks complex pillow castles. She can also imitate playing the guitar while singing.

We live in a? Appearance association? In our society, she will understand that appearance is very important one day. However, if parents can begin to encourage and recognize her achievements that are not based on appearance, they will send a message that her value will not be produced by appearance, nor will it end by appearance.

4. convince her? Princess dream?

Princess culture encourages girls to lead a chaotic life, while waiting for Prince Charming to fall from the sky to save her and bring meaning and value to her life.

Girls will mistakenly think that everything will be ready as long as they attract the prince. This will make girls feel insignificant and worthless, and only by attaching to men can they be complete.

5. All the manual work at home is done by my father.

Although it may be easier for men to repair the faucet, parents should consciously challenge the atypical housework of gender division, otherwise people will feel that women are weaker than men, and women will always be? Watchman? Instead of. A breadwinner? . Show girls that mothers can also do important financial operations or repair faucets.

6. only let her play with other girls

Research shows that drawing a clear line and playing with each other will lead men and women to form two different sets of social skills, lifestyles, expectations and preferences for life.

It has been reported that graduates from girls' schools are not more successful, but stick to gender stereotypes.

So, if your daughter plays with girls at school, try to encourage her to establish friendship with boys or invite boys to her daughter's birthday party. She will understand that she can do anything a boy can do, even better than a boy.