Knowing nothing about military love, marrying a soldier is a dream.
Lang Xianyan is a Miao girl in the mountainous area of Guizhou. How can a girl from Guizhou become attached to a young man from Shucheng, Anhui Province who served in the frontier? "Letter from Home" is the witness of the love between Lang Xianyan and Wang.
In 2008, our comrade-in-arms Wang came to the military camp with his girlfriend. During the chat, the girlfriend of a comrade-in-arms introduced her classmate Lang Xianyan to Wang. From then on, Wang He and Lang Xianyan started Hongyan's biography. Although I have never met each other, the feelings between the two sides are growing day by day. ? In 2009, Wang traveled thousands of miles to Guizhou just to see Lang, which made them fall in love. The lovesickness of letters and telephone calls is also constantly exchanged between Guizhou and Tibet, and the ignorant military love comes quietly.
I have long heard that marrying a soldier will suffer a lot, and it is not easy to be a military wife. Because of this, Lang Xianyan's family, relatives and friends advised her that marrying a soldier requires great sacrifice and she should carefully choose lifelong events. However, she did not agree. After a period of contact, Lang Xianyan's intuition told her that this person is reliable and worth entrusting for life! In this way, Lang Xianyan came to Wang's hometown in Shucheng, Anhui Province from Guizhou with the dream of marrying a soldier.
She is the pillar of her family.
The Wangs are poor and the traffic is inconvenient. His father suffers from hypoglycemia and his mother suffers from Alzheimer's disease, so he can't take care of himself. Her husband joined the army in Tibet thousands of miles away, and the inevitable separation between the two places brought loneliness and loneliness to Lang Xianyan's life. However, she supported the whole family without complaint.
In order to support her family, she found a temporary job nearby besides farm work and housework. Get up at 5 o'clock every morning to prepare breakfast, go to work in the factory during the day, go home at noon and evening to prepare lunch and dinner, and feed my mother-in-law bite by bite. Besides, I have to help my mother-in-law dress, help her go to the toilet, brush her teeth and wash her face. "The hardest thing is to help my mother-in-law take a bath." Lang Xianyan said, "Sometimes she will lose her temper with me or hit me, which is very uncooperative." To this end, Lang Xianyan can only coax her mother-in-law like a child.
One day in 20 14, Lang Xianyan was working in the factory, and suddenly someone came and said that her mother-in-law had fallen. She hurriedly put down her work and ran home to send her mother-in-law to the hospital for treatment. Looking at her old and sick body, Lang Xianyan decided to give up her job and take good care of her mother-in-law at home.
When the son arrived, he firmly supported his lover's determination.
After 20 10 became pregnant, Lang Xianyan realized that it was not easy to be a military wife. During pregnancy, she had to move around, eat irregularly, buy food and cook, and clean up housework. At this moment, how she hopes that as a soldier, she can be with her and spend the most fragile and caring days with her. At this time, he is busy inspecting the most difficult section of the Qinghai-Tibet Railway with an oxygen content of only 40%. Nervous and anxious, she longed to see her husband around, but until she entered the operating room, her husband, who was thousands of miles away, was still busy working. She knew that her anxious husband was gone again ...
On the New Year's Eve of 20 1 1, Wang Jiajun, the son of Lang Xianyan, had a sudden high fever of 39 degrees. On the one hand, I can't live without my mother-in-law, and on the other hand, I am my father-in-law who has just fallen and broken a bone. Lang Xianyan burst into tears. In desperation, she got through to her relatives and sent her son to the town health center overnight. "At that time, I especially wanted my husband to be around, and I also complained with my husband on the phone." Lang Xianyan recalled that she then ordered herself to adjust her mentality as soon as possible, because she knew that she was not only a wife, but also a military wife. She said that it is also a career without honor to be the backing of an excellent military family and support your lover to do a good job.
Be the backing of your husband and never regret marrying a soldier.
On 20 15, Lang Xianyan took his two-year-old son to visit relatives in Wang's army and witnessed the difficult living conditions in Tibet. When I first arrived at the plateau, my son Wang Jiajun was the last to adapt to altitude sickness and harsh climate. I fell ill in a few days, and several layers of skin were removed from my lips. I have a headache and can't sleep, and my throat hurts so much that I can't speak. This situation didn't improve until half a month later. Similarly, Lang Xianyan will feel chest tightness and shortness of breath if he stays indoors for a long time. The cruel plateau life made her husband Wang black and thin, which made Lang Xianyan very upset.
"Daniel has been a soldier since 2006. Although it was hard, he never thought about giving up. " Lang Xianyan told reporters that because Wang did not want to take off that military uniform. Although Lang Xianyan was ready to suffer hardships before getting married, the reality is far more difficult than expected. The husband who is in the military camp is busy all the year round and only has one family leave every year. I met an army with a mission. It's been a long time.
However, when Lang Xianyan really set foot on the plateau, she found that the work of soldiers was great and the army needed people like her husband. As a military wife, years can change her appearance, but never change her heart of persistent support for her husband's career.