Weekly diary is a record of what individuals and groups have seen, heard, thought, felt and confused in a week. How should I write the weekly diary of kindergarten parents? Welcome to consult for your reference.
Chapter 1: How do kindergarten parents do it? According to Zhou Ji, parents are children's first teachers, and a person can't live without the influence of parents and family environment from birth to school, work and society. Paying attention to the cultivation of children's ideological and moral character from the beginning undoubtedly plays a key role in children's growth. Doing a good job in children's enlightenment is not only related to a family, but also to the stability and development of the country and society.
First, creating a good family environment is the premise of cultivating children.
"People can transform the environment, and the environment can also create people." To tell the truth, I am a straightforward person, and I was the least good at children before. Sometimes children are disobedient. Although they don't want to fight, they are always afraid. But then I found that my children's fear was growing, and I learned to complain to my grandparents. In view of this situation, I first consciously create a good family atmosphere. If there is a problem between husband and wife, don't negotiate in front of the children. Children are naughty, patiently persuade, and husband and wife make up for each other. I criticized the child, and my wife will educate her afterwards, and emphasize that the mother criticized her for her own good and loved her performance, so that the child did not feel close to her parents. Secondly, pay attention to language politeness. Third, use music to create a beautiful environment, so that children can feel the warmth of the family.
Second, starting from living habits, paying attention to children's moral education is an important part of cultivating children.
Children are the shadows of their parents. To cultivate children's good living habits, we must first start from me. In the process of educating children, I realize that good living habits are the basis of cultivating children, and paying attention to children's mental health and ideological and moral cultivation is the purpose and key. In modern social life, individuality is the overwhelming situation of the one-child family in China. How to cultivate children's self-reliance ability and avoid becoming weak seedlings in the greenhouse is a problem worthy of every parent's consideration. In this regard, I mainly adopt three methods: First, love children but don't spoil them. For example, children often ask questions such as eating out of McDonald's and KFC. Going out to eat in stages can not only improve the dull life rules, but also broaden children's horizons and adapt to the potential of the outside world. However, I think that if children cry for this reason, parents must not let it go. Second, there are tightness and looseness, and leniency and strictness are combined. Parents should analyze the internal reasons for their children's mistakes. First of all, it is clear whether the child is intentional. Once, while I was resting, my children made water all over the room. I came as soon as I saw the fire, but I asked why I was playing with water. The child said that he was washing a handkerchief and asked, "Didn't you say that you should do your own thing?" From this, I realized that educating children can never be solved simply by preaching and beating and cursing. Third, respecting the old and loving the young constitutes a family rule. Intergenerational separation is a common phenomenon in modern families, and the doting of elders often leads to children's gaffes in front of grandparents. In this respect, I not only respect my parents-in-law, but also exchange views with my parents-in-law directly and put forward some problems that should be paid attention to in educating children, so that in our family and in the world.
It constitutes an environment that respects the elderly and loves the young.
Third, kindergarten is the cradle of cultivating children's healthy growth.
My children entered the park in September this year, and every teacher they met was so kind. When I first entered the park, the child was the youngest in the class. They don't chew with their teeth when eating. They just swallowed blindly, and after a few bites, they spit it out. They are teachers in the class, patiently teaching the children to eat a little, and how happy the children are when they feel the taste of food for the first time. Who knows how hard teachers work? In less than two months, under the guidance of three teachers, I learned more than a dozen nursery rhymes, respected my elders, ate by myself, put on shoes and drew some simple pictures. When my child is sick and uncomfortable, the teachers take her to treatment in time. As a parent, when I pick up my child in kindergarten, I will take the initiative to ask the teacher about the child's performance in the day and what new knowledge he has learned, cooperate with the teacher to consolidate what he has learned, and usually buy some books and videos that children like to cultivate their potential to distinguish between good and bad.
In short, it is a complicated and long-term process to train children to become useful materials in society. We can't expect immediate results in one day. Parents should be psychologically prepared and step by step.
Chapter two: How do kindergarten parents write weekly diary? Since the baby was born, it has brought a lot of happiness to our life. At this time, the baby has entered the kindergarten middle class, which has made great progress compared with the past. He has the necessary potential to take care of himself, has his own thoughts, feelings and hobbies, and often asks "why?" As he grows up, his parents expect to give him a happy life, but they expect him to live a happy and healthy life.
I remember when the baby was young, eating was the biggest headache in our family. We have to eat three meals a day for a long time, or we refuse to open our mouths, or we have to wait a long time to swallow a mouthful of rice into our mouths. Sometimes, in order to get him to talk quickly, grandparents have to do their best to perform in front of the baby, and the whole family is around him. It's funny to think about it now, but I firmly believe that many parents may have had this experience. But since the baby entered the kindergarten, we found that the baby began to develop good eating habits, not only not picky about food, but also did not need adults to feed. Every time we eat, he always says that the farmer's uncle works hard to grow food, and the teacher tells us not to waste it. Only by eating more food can we defeat a monster like Altman. Until now, the baby is the first in every meal in the kindergarten class, and can eat the food cleanly, which has been praised by the teacher and envied by other parents. Because of this, I deeply feel that kindergarten education is really crucial to the growth and influence of children. Since kindergarten, the baby's self-care potential is getting stronger and stronger. Not only did he learn to dress himself and pack his toys, but he also took the initiative to help us adults do housework. So at home, we often boast that the baby has grown up and is really more and more sensible.
The baby has been active since he was a child. I remember when I was in kindergarten, the teacher often said that my child couldn't sit still in class and couldn't concentrate. In order to correct the child's active character, the family bought a lot of puzzles and building blocks, and the baby is also very interested, and often can assemble them seriously and attentively. Slowly, the baby can concentrate for a long time, learn to control objects, and then control his own movements. So I think our parents can choose some toys purposefully according to their children's personality characteristics, which will have a deliberate effect on the healthy development of their children's personality.
At present, my baby likes painting and goes to the Children's Palace for painting classes every Sunday, but when I first started to learn painting, I also had resistance before. I remember painting in kindergarten once. The teacher said that he stood by with a brush and refused to draw. Finally, all the other children finished writing, but he was still a blank sheet of paper, and finally he cried sadly. Later I asked him why he didn't draw. The baby replied, "I can't draw, and I can't draw well, so I don't want to draw." He cried as he talked, and he was very sad. So I patiently said, "The baby can draw whatever he wants. We're doodling. It doesn't matter. Mother firmly believes that our baby Yu Can can definitely do it. "So he began to learn from it and slowly drew a fox in an appropriate way. At present, although the baby's painting is not very good, it has also made progress. I think if he can use his imagination and cultivate some hobbies through painting, it will definitely help his development. Therefore, it is necessary to give more encouragement to children at ordinary times, so that children can learn self-confidence from an early age and improve their study and life intentions.
At present, many parents are very concerned about their children's education, "they can't let their children lose at the same starting line". Because of this, many parents began to grasp their children's learning and education from early childhood. During my baby's summer vacation from a small class to a middle class, I signed up for painting, English and hosting three courses at once, and the schedule was full on Saturday and Sunday. I remember when I was in the first class, the baby was crying, but refused to step into the classroom door. Later, my husband told me that children can't be taught like students when they are playing and studying. They should use games to let them learn knowledge, learn truth and cultivate their hobbies. Indeed, children are innocent and have their own world view. We can't force adults to learn this and that with their utilitarian thoughts, which will limit their independent personality and imagination potential. We should develop their potential according to their interests. At ordinary times, we should pay more attention to cultivating children's interest in things and good study habits, so that he can really live happily.
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