1, parents should change their practices.
The college entrance examination in China is based on scores, so many parents are most concerned about their children's academic performance. When children's grades drop, they will make noise and scold, and even take some punishment measures, which will give them great psychological pressure and even lead to weariness of learning. Parents should change this practice, and don't scold or punish their children because of a good or bad grade. Usually, children are under great pressure to study on campus, so they should be encouraged and praised more when they go home.
2. Avoid comparing your children with others.
This is something that many parents like to do. They always talk to their children by saying, "You see how many points people get in the exam, and then you see how many points you get in the exam." The children of high school students are in adolescence, and their self-esteem is sensitive and fragile. If you talk too much, it will make them feel embarrassed, hurt their self-esteem, and make them mentally agitated and depressed. Don't compare your child's study with others, but help him find a suitable learning method, which will help him more.
3. Help children recognize themselves.
High school students' weariness of learning is definitely not caused by a whim, but by the accumulation of various reasons for a long time. For example, children can't keep up with their studies, they work hard in class but don't understand, their classmates don't like themselves, they are too tired to go to school for too long, they think it's useless to go to school, they are confused about the future, and they are puppy love and rebellion, all of which will lead to children's weariness of learning. At this time, parents and teachers are needed to help children recognize themselves and have a correct understanding of themselves. For example, I study hard, but I can't get any results. Maybe I have been learning by rote and spend much more time than others every day, but the result is always unsatisfactory. When you feel tired of learning because of this, you should learn to change your learning concept quickly and ask teachers and other students for advice, instead of always working so hard.
4. Help and teach children to decompress and release.
We all know that people will collapse under too much pressure, just like a spring. The harder you press, the greater the rebound. High school students are under great pressure to study. If this kind of pressure is not released and channeled for a long time, it may crush children. Parents help their children to relieve stress, such as taking their children to the movies, singing, going to amusement parks and traveling on Sunday, so that they can bid farewell to their studies and release themselves temporarily. Children spend most of their time in high school, so it is a good choice to teach them to decompress themselves, such as going to the playground to exercise during recess and chatting with classmates.
5. Learn to adapt to the new environment and get along well with others.
High school students are different from junior high school students. Children usually go far away to live and study. The new environment, new lifestyle, and living and studying with different people will inevitably bring great discomfort and irritability. At this time, children are required to adapt to the new environment and handle interpersonal relationships well. It is also a great challenge for children to learn how to deal with the interpersonal relationship between dormitory and classmates. Once it is not handled well, it will make children feel irritable and depressed, depressed, unable to concentrate on school, and then tired of school. Therefore, it is the first gift for children to grow up that parents teach their children to adapt to the new environment and learn the methods of interpersonal communication.
6. Take your child to counseling. If the child is unwilling to communicate with parents or teachers, parents can also talk to their children with people they trust, or find professional adolescent psychological education teachers to help find out the root cause of their children's weariness of learning. Psychological counseling is a sharp knife to open the gap between parents and children. Professional psychological counseling can help children and parents open their hearts, relieve emotional stress and fundamentally establish a good parent-child relationship.
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Tired of learning is not terrible, the key is to put a correct attitude. What should high school students do if they are rebellious and tired of learning? The first thing is to learn to face it calmly, and parents should also face it objectively. Secondly, don't be impatient, sharpen the knife and don't miss the woodcutter. As long as the problem of students' weariness of learning can be solved, their grades can be caught up, so don't rush for success. Finally, don't lose heart, weariness can be changed, as long as the method is proper.