1, respect children and treat them equally.
First of all, we should respect and encourage children's wishes, and then consider how to respect and encourage children's wishes. It not only satisfies children's wishes, but also lets children know what they should do, what they can do and what they can't do in practice. Simply saying "no" can only destroy the parent-child relationship and suppress the initiative of children.
2. Trust children
When you see a child falling behind in some way, you will think that the child's ability in this respect is not good. As parents, we should fully believe that children have this potential, but they didn't show it at that time. The question is whether parents are willing to persistently discover and develop their children's potential.
3. Example is more important than language.
Parents are their children's first teachers, and they must first fulfill their requirements for their children. Parents' words and deeds, manners and thoughts, etc. Is imperceptibly affecting children. Experiments show that when the tradition of teaching by example is temporary, the educational effect of the two is the same. When an example is inconsistent with words and deeds, the role of an example is more important than words and deeds.
The ability that children should have in family education;
1, self-care ability
Self-care ability is the foundation of human existence, and the cultivation of children's self-care ability is extremely important and has a far-reaching impact on children's development. Children's poor self-care ability will cause many problems and seriously affect their personal development. Therefore, cultivating children's good self-care ability has a far-reaching impact on their lives and future work.
2. Self-study ability
Self-study ability will benefit children for life, make them full of poetry and self-appreciation, thus enriching their knowledge structure and improving their comprehensive quality. Pay attention to children's self-study ability, let children learn to learn and master learning ability. Therefore, in the rapidly developing society, I can adapt well and give full play to my subjective initiative to change my life.
3. Good interpersonal skills
Good interpersonal skills are an important aspect of a person's foothold in society. Cultivating children's communicative competence is conducive to their future development and opens up broad prospects for a better life. Children's good communication skills are an important "bridge and link" after they step into society and a "stepping stone" to work.