Communicate with children more, especially from primary school to junior high school. This is a stage that is prone to rebellious psychology. If the child makes a mistake, don't think that beating and cursing can solve the problem, which will easily lead to the child's negative psychology. Children will become autistic and don't like to talk, especially on small things. Don't get angry easily. Always watch home movies with your children and actively communicate with them. If your children have a good relationship with their parents, they will take the initiative to tell you their problems, hoping to get the opinions of adults to solve them better. Don't deliberately stop their hobbies, provided that their hobbies are not bad hobbies. After learning, help them build their own specialties, so that children's lives will not be boring, and it is also conducive to their future development. If they have resistance to setting up their own major, don't force their children too much. Try to communicate with them and convince them first. If they still resist, forget it. After all, I am still a child and can't think from the perspective of adults. You can also try to understand their hobbies for a long time. If children have good hobbies, parents can encourage them to help them develop their specialties. This is the best of both worlds. If your child is regarded as a bad boy by everyone, please don't look at your child like this. If even their parents give up on them in this world, then they are completely defined in the name of a bad boy. If your child is regarded as a bad boy by everyone, it is because he has not grown up. What I am talking about here is not the growth of age, but the growth of the heart. Some children are like this, and they always have to go through something to grow up. There are many such examples. That's what a child does. He needs inspiration from his parents and teachers, or he suddenly grows up in some way. If your child is a bad boy in everyone's eyes, please don't blame the child, please review yourself first. Children don't go bad all at once. There must be a process. So, as a parent, what are you doing in the process of children getting worse? If your child goes bad, please encourage your child as a parent and let him know that he is not alone. His parents are watching him. Don't always compare his children with other children, it will break their hearts. Your child is unique and can't be replaced by anyone. If you want to compare your children with other people's children, please compare yourself with other people's parents first. Maybe everything you do is for the good of your children, but as a parent, you should choose the right method, and different methods have completely different effects. Parents are role models for their children. When you ask your children, please set an example. Many children will fall in love early, which is a necessary stage for every child, the seed of love in youth. In the meantime, please take the initiative to communicate with your children and help them through this period of ignorance. Love is a kind of heart-to-heart communication. You can't stop their thoughts, so please tell them how to treat them correctly, because at this time, they are also afraid. The most important thing is one sentence: children are always children, and you can't look at things with the eyes of adults. Then please help them as parents, and don't be hurt by eager ambitions. Don't always blame your children, but praise them occasionally. Parents' affirmation is more important than anything else.