win people by virtue
You can't take a rough approach. The correct way is to reason with facts and convince people with virtue.
Encourage children more.
Give encouragement, encourage children more, don't yell if children don't obey, and communicate with children more. Parents of rebellious children should try their best to understand their children and give them spiritual support.
Rage is not suitable for education.
It is not appropriate to educate children when they are furious. If parents are very angry, it is not appropriate to educate their children. At this time, both sides should calm down and give each other room to think.
Respect for children
Learn to respect children. When children are rebellious, don't just control them, but give them more respect. You can try to look at the problem from another angle and stand in the child's point of view.
Set a good example
To set an example and change children's behavior, parents must first change themselves. Educating children is also a process of self-education, and there must be principles, especially if children are not unconditionally satisfied with any requirements. If their demands are met indiscriminately, their children will become more and more presumptuous.