Parents must read: three short stories reflecting the principles of family education. Family education is the most important part of children's growth. Parents all over the world are eager to give their children the best tutor, but they have adopted the wrong method more or less. The following three educational stories are simple but profound and thought-provoking.

This paper introduces several principles that should be followed in family education. Did your parents have any inspiration after reading it? Story 1: Don't give it to children easily. This is disrespectful to children. The poverty in Rwanda may only be imaginable by ordinary people. Volunteer A got off the truck and saw a skinny, naked black boy running towards them. That boy seldom sees such a big truck. Suddenly, volunteer A moved with compassion, turned to get the things in the car and walked to the little boy. "What are you doing?" Volunteer B shouted, "Put it down!" Volunteer a froze. He doesn't know what happened. Aren't we going to do charity work? Volunteer b leaned forward to the little boy. "Hello, we come from afar. There are many things in the car. Can you help us move them down? " ? We'll pay. "The little boy hesitated to stay where he was. At this time, many children came running, and volunteer B said the same thing to them. A child tried to remove a bucket of biscuits from the car. Volunteer B picked up a quilt and a bucket of biscuits and handed them to him, saying, "Thank you very much. This is a reward for you. Is anyone else willing to help? "Other children are also full of energy, and it didn't take long to unload the goods. Volunteer b gives each child a relief item. At this time, another child came and was very disappointed to see that there was no goods on the truck to help move. Volunteer B said to him, "Look, everyone is tired. Can you sing a song for us? Your singing will make us happy! "The child sang a local song, and volunteer B also gave him one:" Thank you, you sang great. " Chi Yi looked at these thoughtfully. In the evening, volunteer B said to him, "I'm sorry, I apologize for my attitude in the morning. I shouldn't talk to you so loudly. "But you know what? It's not their fault that the children here are in poverty, but if you give them things easily and make them think that poverty can be a means of earning a living for nothing, it's your fault! " On this day, Volunteer A had an unusual day. Since I was engaged in family education, many parents have asked me the same question-"What if children can't think independently?" At this time, I also asked my parents, "Your children don't ask your homework. How do you solve it?" Most parents readily answered "Tell him the answer". At this time, I went on to ask my parents, "Did you give your child a chance to think independently? Have you guided your children to think independently? " In fact, family education is like volunteers giving relief to poor children in Rwanda. Even if those things are given to them for free, they should be given through their own efforts, not easily. Some parents told me that they had prepared the money for their children to buy a house before going to college, and then they said that their children were not motivated. I said, even if you have a big house for your child, what else does your child need to do? !

Story 2: There will be "results" when you calm down. There is a carpenter working in his yard. His business is very good. Every day from morning till night, the sound of saws and hammers in the yard becomes one, and the ground is full of shavings and sawdust. One night, the carpenter and his disciples stood on a high platform and saw a big tree. Pulling, pulling, pulling, accidentally, the strap of his mechanical watch broke and the watch fell into the sawdust on the ground. Watches were very valuable at that time. The carpenter hurried down to look for it. But there are many shavings on the ground, and I can't find them. It was night, and many of his disciples came to help him find it with lanterns. Everyone looked for it together, but they couldn't find the small watch. When the carpenter saw it, there was nothing he could do. Forget it, keep the change, lock the door and wait until dawn tomorrow. The carpenter packed his bags and got ready for bed. After a while, his little son came running: "Dad, look, look, I found my watch!" " "The carpenter was very surprised." We are so old that we can't even find a small watch with lanterns. How can you find it? "The child said," You are all gone, so I will play in the yard alone. No one is working, and the yard is quiet. Suddenly I heard the sound of tick, tick, tick. I followed the sound and found my watch as soon as I pulled it. "It enlightens some parents that the common phenomena in family education, such as impetuousness of quick success and instant benefit, comparison of driving ducks to the shelves, and mindless blind obedience, have become more and more prominent among some parents, forming a terrible social atmosphere. However, children's growth has a "flowering period". Educating children must be calm, just like children looking for watches, who will use their brains. Only when he is calm can he get the desired "result". Story 3 Everything has a season. If you miss it, there will be no more 1920 10. /kloc-in October, an Indian missionary, Singh, found two girls fed by wolves in the jungle of Calcutta, India. The older girl is about 8 years old, and the younger girl 1 half year old. It is speculated that they were taken to the cave by the mother wolf when they were about half a year old. Singh named them, the older one is Kamara, and the younger one is Amara. When they are led into orphanages, all their living habits are the same as those of wild animals. Instead of standing on their feet, they walk on all fours. They are afraid of the sun. In the sun, their eyes only opened a narrow gap and kept blinking. They are used to seeing things in the dark. They often sleep during the day and come back to life at night. Every night around 10, 1 and 3 o'clock, it will make a sharp and strange non-human and non-animal noise. They don't understand language at all, and they can't pronounce human syllables. The two of them often huddle together like animals and don't want to get close to others. They can't take things with their hands. They really gobble like wolves and lick the water with their tongues. When eating, if people or animals come near, they will purr to scare people. Open your mouth and stick out your tongue when you are hot, panting like a dog. They refused to bathe, dress and urinate anywhere. After they were led into the orphanage, the singers took good care of them and patiently raised and educated them. Generally speaking, the development of little Amara is faster than that of big Kamara. After two months in an orphanage, I began to speak "bhoo (water, Bengali)" when I was thirsty, and I showed interest in other children's activities earlier. Regrettably, Amara died less than a year after she was admitted to the hospital. It took kamala 25 months to say the first word "horse". Four years later, he only learned six words. Seven years later, it increased to 45 words. He once said a sentence, which consisted of three words. After entering the hospital, kamala will walk on his knees 16 months or more, stand for 2 years and 8 months, walk for 5 years or more, and crawl on all fours when running fast. Kamala lived to be 17 years old. But she didn't really learn to speak until her death, and her intelligence was only equivalent to that of a child of three or four years old.

The story of two wolf children in India from discovery to death shows that everything has its own seasonal characteristics, and missing this season will be a remedy and improvement. This is especially true for children. A child is never two 1 years old. 3- 12 years old is the best season for family education for children. Good habits in this period are hard to change, just as we taught our children to call "dad" and "mom" from a few months old. Once children learn to call them "father" and "mother", they will not agree to let them call others "father" and "mother" when they are two or three years old. If children are allowed to develop good habits in moral, intellectual and physical aspects in the early stage, then their future growth will be logical. However, if there is something wrong with family education at this time, the time spent on children in the future will be very difficult and sometimes ineffective.