As soon as my husband talks about educating children, he says that he is soft-hearted and will fight. He doesn't want to communicate more. I am alone, without ideas, and very lonely. Really want someone to discuss it? You can have a good talk with your husband, tell him what you think and listen to his thoughts. If you think you just can't play, just tell him directly, and then explain your thoughts on educating your children to him clearly. If not, you can discuss it with your parents. Children's education is very important. Blindly beating and cursing will only educate him into a person who can only beat and scold.