From what you said, my mother-in-law belongs to a woman with strong personality and strong opinions. Even if you are careful in everything, she can find your shortcomings from some of your behaviors and criticize them. In fact, it may not be as good as you to let her do the same thing.
She likes to lecture you, but in fact she just enjoys the feeling of reprimanding people and giving orders to show her prestige as a mother-in-law. Maybe that's how she got through being a daughter-in-law
Girls don't need to care too much at this time. She's right. Let's just listen and learn, and pay more attention to correction in the future. If not, then listen to cross talk when she talks about others.
When her class is almost over or she can't listen any more, you pour her a glass of water. "Grandma, you're right. I'll pay attention to it later. Thank you for your advice. "
Relax the atmosphere between you at ordinary times. Even if you know how to do something, you should ask her from time to time. In short, let the mother-in-law feel that she is still the master of this family. The whole process showed a state of humility, and finally praised her mother-in-law. "Mom, you are too smart, or you have experience. Please give me more advice in the future. " I still have a lot to learn from you. "In this way, even if she teaches you a lesson again, she will pay attention to the euphemism of language.
Finally, girls should regard their mother-in-law as their best friend. You can share the problem of dressing and makeup with her and increase your daily interaction with your mother-in-law. Any problems between you two will never be problems in the future.
Therefore, resentment can only be tolerated. In addition to pleasing my mother-in-law, I can only buy another house and move out.