2. Avoid using negative tone. When talking to children, you must pay attention to your tone, and don't use too strong words, such as I order you, I warn you, you'd better hurry up and so on. In order to avoid misunderstanding or misinterpretation of the conversation. If you want parent-child communication to be effective, either shout or not shout. Only in this way can we communicate with our children more smoothly, understand each other and have a more harmonious parent-child relationship.
3. Respect and understand children. Children often make some naive behaviors or ideas, which may be ridiculous to us adults, but they are precious to children and a manifestation of their innocence. So respect children, understand children, and don't laugh at their ideas. In this way, children will be willing to actively communicate with their parents and tell them what they think. Only in this way can parents and children communicate better.
4. Listen to your child's thoughts. If you want to be an excellent communicator, you must first become an excellent listener. Communication is a two-way behavior. If you only stand on your own point of view and explain your own point of view, and don't care about other people's thoughts and feelings, such communication is doomed to fail. Parents may wish to consider the problem from their children's point of view, and let their children really relax and ease their emotions on the premise of mutual equality and respect, thus ensuring effective communication.
Parents should learn to praise their children. Everyone hates the feeling of being criticized, even children. Even if some people's psychological endurance is far superior to others, it is better to be praised than criticized. As parents, when treating children, we must pay more attention to discovering the advantages of children and give affirmation and praise. And take this as a breakthrough, open the door of effective communication and create a good start for the follow-up communication.
6. Play with children. There are many ways to communicate with children. Parents not only need to communicate with their children through chatting and get to know them. You can also play with children and play your favorite games with them. By playing games, parents and children can communicate and communicate together in a more pleasant way. When parents often play games with their children, they will find that they really didn't know enough about their children before and didn't really understand them.