Whether going out or staying at home, there are always many unknowns waiting for children to experience and explore this wonderful world. Like wild horses, they will be attracted by all kinds of novelty and have fun. However, it is inevitable to bump into it. Next, I sorted out what parents should do when their children bump and fall. I hope you like the article!
1, positive attitude.
The parents were unmoved when the child fell. This attitude will create a negative child, who will avoid giving up when encountering difficulties. Therefore, when a child falls, the parents' reaction should be relative, preferably positive. For example, tell your child that it doesn't matter, get up when you fall, and be a brave child.
2. Don't suppress children's nature.
Some parents forbid their children to cry, attack and suppress him, which will easily leave a shadow on their young minds, and even cause serious distortion of their personality, and will create "Ninja Turtles": cowards, dwarfs who are afraid of wolves before and tigers after, and giants who have words. Therefore, children cry because of pain, and parents should accept the revelation of children's nature, don't laugh or criticize.
3. Comfort and encouragement are indispensable.
When a child falls, the first thing to do is to encourage the child to stand up and develop the habit of overcoming difficulties. Parents should see whether their children are injured in time and then give them encouragement and hugs. Parents' arms are children's eternal harbor, full of love and warmth, which can quickly soothe the soul. If the child cries, let him cry in our arms, pat or touch him; Proper crying can release the pressure and unhappiness in your heart.
4. Teach children to learn to sum up experience.
In the face of failure, it is very important to sum up experience. Without experience, children will fall in the same place. If the child succeeds, give positive encouragement and don't be stingy with your praise. Winners find ways, losers find reasons. We should guide our children to learn how to successfully protect themselves. This can cultivate the spirit of "standing up from where you fell".
Many mothers regard their babies as "the apple of their eyes", so they will make a big tree to support their children and let them grow up in a carefree environment. Therefore, doting on education is actually extremely unfavorable to the healthy growth of children. When the baby falls, parents may wish to keep a rational and calm heart and gently give comfort and encouragement to the baby!
Babies will inevitably stumble when they learn to walk. When the baby falls to the ground, some mothers complain bitterly, some mothers feel distressed, some mothers encourage, and some mothers turn a blind eye ... In fact, these methods are not the most correct. When the baby falls, parents should give appropriate encouragement and comfort, and teach the baby to learn from it and sum up experience.