If the husband and wife can't coordinate, advance and retreat together, and always understand and understand each other, then a long time will inevitably accelerate the breakdown of marriage and eventually divorce and go their separate ways.
What actions or words will lead to the breakdown of marital relationship?
First: domestic violence, that is, beating people.
Quarrel is the worst thing for couples to quarrel. Violence cannot completely solve the problem. This idea is wrong. Moreover, when you start hitting each other, you have proved that you don't love each other as much as you say. Moreover, in an angry state, it is easy for a person to get out of control, lose his mind, and can't tell the weight of his hands. Once it hits the key, it will lead to uncontrollable consequences.
Second: ignore each other's feelings and distrust each other.
Trust is the foundation of marriage, and attaching importance to each other's feelings is the cornerstone of happiness. In the long-term life of husband and wife, if one party does not trust the other party, remains skeptical and ignores the feelings of the other party, it will easily lead to family conflicts, which will make the other party feel very painful and naturally have the idea of leaving you.
Third: Don't always talk about divorce.
Husband and wife are birds of a feather, and they are destined to be together. We should cherish this fate. It is very foolish to force the other party to make concessions or compromises through frequent oral divorce. After a long time, under the hint of this kind of discourse, the other party will gradually have the idea of divorce without the idea of divorce, and will be disheartened about this marriage.
Fourth: Don't have a cold war after quarreling.
The longer the cold war lasts, the more it will hurt the feelings of husband and wife. The right thing to do is for the man to take the initiative to make concessions and apologize so that both sides can calm down.