Adolescence is a transitional period from childishness to maturity. During this period, children are prone to all kinds of rebellious psychology, that is, "adolescent syndrome." The reasons for rebellious psychology are as follows: First, teenagers are in a transitional period, and their sense of independence and self-awareness is increasing day by day, hoping to get rid of the guardianship and bondage of adults. They are against adults who regard themselves as children and pretend to be adults. In order to show their uniqueness, they tend to find fault with everything. When they feel or worry that the outside world ignores their independent existence and their desire for self-expression is hindered, they will have a strong rebellious mentality. Second, social factors, such as improper educational methods of teachers and parents.

Adolescence is an annoying transitional age for children and parents. Improper parental guidance will seriously affect emotional communication with children. In fact, children at this age are only pursuing their own independent personality. As long as parents guide them properly, they can get through this dangerous period smoothly. So parents should do the following:

1, respect children. In front of children, don't put parents in the eye, convince others with strength. Take advantage of the trend and make friends with children. Let children do their own things, but also respect their privacy, such as not opening letters without permission, not peeking at diaries, etc.

2. Communicate with children more, pay attention to the way of communication with children, and replace the tone of lessons and orders with the tone of respect and discussion; Communicate with children more, especially when children encounter emergency or trouble, parents should communicate with their children in time and guide them. Help analyze children's requirements, encourage them correctly, enlighten them wrongly, and remember to slander them maliciously.

3. Learn psychology and physiology knowledge, especially adolescent mental health knowledge, understand children's psychological changes in the process of growth and development, and help children treat life and study correctly.

4. Cultivate children's sound personality. Parents should cultivate their children's enterprising spirit, sense of urban justice, perseverance, tolerance, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement, help them overcome their inferiority complex, enhance their sense of participation and give play to their sense of ownership.

For children themselves, adolescence should do the following:

1, communicate with your parents more when you meet, and don't contradict your parents blindly, especially emotional problems. It is normal to have an admiration for the opposite sex in this period. The key is how to deal with it yourself. The best solution is to tell your relatives and friends or parents and listen to their opinions. After all, they are experienced people and have experience in dealing with this problem.

2. For boys, it is necessary to participate in more group activities, and communicate with female students naturally, frankly and amicably during the activities to meet the psychological needs of the opposite sex. We should also cultivate hobbies. Actively participate in literature, art, science and technology, sports and other activities that are beneficial to physical and mental development, and concentrate the energy of youth on studying hard, developing interest and pursuing progress.

3, adolescence For girls, the most important thing is mentality, self-confidence, optimism, and more smiles. Don't be discouraged when something happens. The main point is to respect yourself and love yourself, and maintain normal relations, friendship and heterosexual buddies with boys. Don't be afraid if you are puppy love. Protect yourself, don't let a mistake become the source of your tears in the future. Innocence is the most important thing! In learning, come on, treat it calmly, and remember to keep a normal heart and communicate with others with your heart.