If a family sits in front of the TV and watches TV, parents will first directly block the scenes of kissing and making love. If you watch a bed play with your parents, the air will suddenly calm down. Even the three of you don't know what to do at this time, and you may change the channel soon.
Such a scene often occurs in life. When encountering something about sexual knowledge, parents' first reaction is to escape and don't know how to explain it. When we receive education for the first time, it should be regarded as biology and politics in junior high school, but the teacher will be reluctant to let go when giving lectures. Embarrassed, I quickly said that the political teacher told you not to steal the forbidden fruit at most, and then I skipped it.
After going to college, I gradually matured physically and mentally, but there are still no problems related to universal sex education. I remember when I was in college, the course of sex education needed an exam. I got 98 points at that time, and then I was laughed at by my classmates for a whole semester. Because I am the first in my class, everyone says that I am good at this course. At that time, I was wondering if there would be such ridicule. On the other hand, we are really ashamed to talk about sex and don't want to talk about it, or even talk about it.
Think about it, you are an adult in college. It is normal to fall in love, go out to live with your partner, or hear the news that someone else is pregnant. But when these things reach the ears of college students, they will feel abnormal, will vomit, and will feel that this should not be the case.
Many people's contact knowledge comes from TV series or movies and online search. When children face those films for the first time, they will be curious, have a feeling of dabbling and want to try. But this is very dangerous. If you don't give positive guidance, it will make your child go further and further.
Even many girls don't know menstruation. When they come to menstruation for the first time, they will be at a loss and don't know what's wrong with their bodies. Just like boys who don't know that they will have nocturnal emission, they will panic and be afraid. These are all manifestations of insufficient popularization.
Therefore, sex education in China really needs to be strengthened. Parents should not run away, teachers should not brush them off, and children should know more to avoid making mistakes.