Because of the children's education, it is normal for couples to quarrel and be awkward. The starting point is for the good of the children. This is no problem, but it is irrational for your husband to hit people. This is not good. What's more, your sadness is normal and unacceptable to anyone. This matter, you still have to call the old people on both sides together, let him apologize to you, and ensure that it will not happen again in the future.