0 1. Don't get to the bottom of it.
Everyone likes to gossip, which is normal, but we should exercise proper restraint. Being too curious is not a good thing, and it is easy to attract others' disgust.
02. Keep your appearance clean and tidy.
No one wants to see a person's rich inner self through his untidy appearance. The internet is full of handsome guys and beautiful women, and everyone is willing to look twice, because it is very comfortable.
Don't show your superiority.
Don't show off how many books you have read, how many places you have been and how much knowledge you have. Act like you're awesome, and people will hate you.
04. Don't be reasonable.
Truth can never convince a person. What can convince a person is only your actions and results, or the south wall that ta himself has hit.
05. Don't go to the circle of friends to show off material.
Even if you have something that others don't have, from the car to the house to a very ceremonial birthday, don't deliberately show it off. If you like to show off, it is easy to attract envy and slander from others.
06. Enhance your own value.
This society is very realistic, you are valuable, and others will take the initiative to approach you. Bo Huang once said a very touching sentence: "When you succeed, you are surrounded by good people". Even in love. You are valuable and your love is valuable. Less video testing, less drama, focus on making money, and strive to enhance their own value.
07. Borrow money from people around you, and remember to pay back a dime.
Everyone cares about money. Money is a person's credit. If you borrow money and don't pay it back in time, it is equivalent to overdraft credit.
08. Don't be a good person.
Although always thanking good people, no one really likes good people. Human nature is strange. The better you are, the more grateful ta is to you, but the more you push your luck. Next time you don't do it, ta won't remember the good things in front of you, but will hate you for this bad thing.
09. Learn to trouble others appropriately.
A person who doesn't want to trouble others generally doesn't like others to trouble himself. Sometimes it's just to promote proper relationships and trouble others. This is the relationship between people, reciprocity, reciprocity. When partners have difficulties with each other, helping each other is the preservative of the relationship.
10. There is no need to tell the truth of 100%.
People only said three words, not all my heart. No cheating, no harm to each other's interests. As long as you are 6.7 points sincere to people, you don't have to tear yourself upside down like a bamboo tube.
Everyone should have their own secrets. Or a tragic family background, or a loveless childhood, or a heartbreaking love story, these are all scars in my heart, and there is no need to say them, and the other party may not be able to fully feel the same.
1 1. When chatting on WeChat, don't ask the other person "Are you there?"
Generally, people who ask this question on WeChat want something from others. Say something and get to the point. Long-winded, wasting time and energy, it is not easy to win the favor of others.
12. When chatting, don't fall into the mode of talking to yourself.
In the chat, don't be busy talking about yourself, whether the other person wants to listen or not. Judging whether the other person is interested in chatting from their body language, if not, stop the conversation decisively or listen to what the other person has to say.
13. Keep your distance in intimate relationships
Affection, friendship, love, these relationships should maintain a proper sense of boundary for themselves and each other, so that they can feel safe, without offending, prying or interfering. Always remember that the other person is another person and needs his own space.
14. Thank those who helped you.
Helping others is a duty, but not helping others. For everyone who gives help, sincerely saying "thank you" will make others feel warm. If there is a bad result because of the help of others, don't blame and blame, it will make people feel chilling.
Control your emotions.
A mature adult knows how to control his emotions and will not make himself a slave to them. Made a fire, my heart refreshed, but nothing was solved, but people had a bad opinion of you.
16. Don't lose your temper with the people closest to you.
Some frustrated middle-aged men who don't mix well in the workplace will take their emotions home and hold their wives and children to lose their temper. Family members should not be victims of emotions and fight back when they are bullied, instead of being bullies at home. Losing your temper with the people closest to you only shows that you are too incompetent.
17. Human feelings are very expensive.
Don't use human feelings for things that can be solved with small money, and it is difficult to pay back human debts.
18. Don't point fingers at others easily.
No one likes to listen to criticism and lessons, but everyone likes to listen to nice words. When pointing out other people's shortcomings, you can praise them first. In the workplace, leaders often use this trick when they speak. First, they wear a tall hat and then take it off, so that people who listen can easily accept it.
19. Be talked about and stay away decisively.
If you hear others talking about yourself behind your back, don't get angry or argue with them. Just stay away from that person silently in my heart. Because people who like to gossip behind their backs are generally not good people.
20. Don't always complain to people around you.
When you complain about your misery, others may sympathize with you, but slowly you will leave you. No one likes to make friends with people with negative energy. Say something inspirational and encouraging in front of others.
2 1. Don't visit relatives and friends empty-handed.
When you go to someone's house for dinner, remember to bring some small gifts, buy some fruits and bring a box of milk to let others know that you are the kind of person who understands the world.
22. Don't make fun of other people's shortcomings.
For example, others are fat, short, poor and rustic. Don't laugh at them Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. It is disgusting to make fun of other people's shortcomings.
23. Don't explain yourself
Don't always make excuses for yourself when you haven't finished something. Pay special attention to this in the workplace. Leaders always value the results, not how hard you work.
24. Reject ineffective social interaction.
Instead of spending time eating and drinking and engaging in ineffective interpersonal relationships. It is better to spend more time alone, read more books and learn to improve yourself. Solitude is a person's best value-added period.
25. Give more praise to high-quality content.
Now is the online world, and many people like to learn the work and lifestyle of some excellent bloggers. When brushing high-quality content, you should like it in time. For example, this will be labeled as a high-quality user, and more high-quality content will be pushed to you next time, saving time in finding high-quality content.
No response is the best response.
If you send a message to others on WeChat, don't ask if there is any response. You will never wake a person who pretends to sleep, and the other person may not want to talk to you at all.
27. Say "no" bravely to things you don't want to do.
Don't always worry that your refusal will bring harm to others. Maybe the other person is ready to refuse!
28. Have their own positions and values.
We have been taught to be "really obedient" since childhood. Don't be an obedient person, even parents, and don't listen to everything. Be an adult who can choose, judge and have opinions.
29. Laugh at yourself appropriately
This move is well used and very popular. Yang Mi is good at deceiving herself. Many people say that she lives a transparent life.
Talking about money is the greatest respect for yourself.
When someone disdains to say in front of you that money is not important and the house is not important. You can keep a distance from ta in your mind, which shows that your three views are different and it is difficult to last long. Money will always flow to those who welcome them.