It can be seen that you are a parent who attaches importance to children's education and hopes that their children will have a future and form good habits. But from your introduction to children, I think there is something wrong with parents' education methods.

Respect for children

Can you kneel down and talk to your child when you are talking, which shows a kind of equality and respect?

Discussion tone

You can discuss tone with your child, not command.

Pay attention to the child's command in advance.

Pay attention to the child's early command, and don't lose your temper when the child doesn't listen to your command.

Affirm the advantages of children.

Good children are exaggerated, so you should affirm the advantages of children, enhance their self-confidence, and at the same time make them willing to listen to you and narrow the distance between you and your children.

Small safflower reward mechanism

Son, starting today, I will say it once before eating. Can you wash your hands? If you do this, your mother will draw you a little red flower. Every time you get five small red flowers, you will get a small red flag to see how much you can get. When you get five little red flags, your mother will give you a little wish. This can not only guide children, make them easy to form good habits, but also avoid confrontation between parents and children.