Family education guide
1. Parents are the most loyal teachers for children.
A good father is better than a hundred teachers. A child has only one chance to grow up and can grow up with him. The time he paid for him may be so short, and the opportunity is lost and will never be found again. Learn to be a child's bosom friend and bosom friend.
What is a successful person? The success of your own career is only half the battle. The real success is to educate your children successfully.
2 tiger father and wolf mother education is not conducive to children's growth
Although there is an old saying that "a dutiful son can do a good job" and "if he doesn't do a good job, he can't become a talent", excessive care and care will deprive children of room for growth. Too many restrictions and interference to the other extreme will also hinder the release of children's potential.
3 believe in the potential of children's development
Modern scientific research has long proved that the energy of the normal brain is only about 25%. Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. If you want your child to do it, you must cherish every opportunity for your child to grow up, appreciate his growth, and appreciate his words and deeds. The potential of children is immeasurable.
4 Cultivate children's specialties
The happiest thing is to make him like one thing, even if it is to grow flowers and raise small animals, so that his spare time and energy can be pinned. What is the best hobby? Liking is the most important thing. If you have a loving child, you will have a healthy and happy life even if you can't get into a university or a famous brand. Every child can have a different growth path, but hobbies will improve the quality of life of children throughout their lives.
Teach children to read.
Nowadays, students seldom read books except textbooks. A person who doesn't study can't go far. Whether he studies or not has nothing to do with whether he graduated from college. Books are real universities and paradise for spiritual growth.
6 Waiting for flowers to bloom, every child has his brilliant season.
Education is the cause of developing life. Every seed has its own land, and everyone has his own unique existence value, each with his own strengths and excellent qualities. However, not every flower blooms in spring. Respect the law of children's growth and development and wait patiently for him to bloom.
7. Help children know themselves
There are infinite kinds of interest classes, and children's time is limited. Parents should learn to balance. There are also the balance between in-class and out-of-class classes, the balance between exams and interests, the balance between Chinese education and western education, and the balance between physical exercise and study.
Parents should help their children provide and create opportunities, and try their best to find out his strongest ability, talent and matching life mission, so that your children will succeed.
Morality is the common sense of education
Parents sometimes fall into a misunderstanding that a handsome man will cover up all the ugliness. In fact, knowledge can only affect a certain stage, while morality affects a person's life. The defects of knowledge can be made up, but the moral problems can't be saved. Pay attention to the art of talking to children.
When children encounter difficulties, they should use positive tone and language, and criticism should be artistic and credible. A word will affect a person's life.