"Take care of yourself first" has always been an eternal principle. You will find that most successful parents have a proactive and diligent heart. No matter what the present situation of life is, they will never give up their lives and ideals. From beginning to end, it is the best model brand image that parents should create for their children.
Many parents have some misunderstandings about "self-cultivation". They think they must succeed in order to educate their children well. In fact, "self-cultivation" usually focuses on a whole process, not the result. In the process of pursuing a perfect life, parents can encourage their children to study hard in the whole process of hard work, including parents' manners and manners, which may become training templates for their children. So how should parents "educate themselves"?
For parents, time is extremely precious. Work, study, training, taking care of children's housework is fully arranged every day. If it can't be arranged scientifically, not only will parents feel tired and unable to persevere, but the quality of products waiting for their children's development will also be reduced.
Ordinary staff work 8 hours a day, but with the commuting distance and meal time, it takes about 10~ 12 hours, and the sleep time is about 7~8 hours a day. Needless to say, parents have very little sleep time at their disposal, some even less than 7 hours, so there are only 3-4 hours left for taking children+learning and training.
Put your study time on the way to and from work. Most people are brushing videos and chasing dramas when they are walking on the road. In fact, they can try to listen to the news and brush short videos of professional knowledge classroom teaching. One day 1 hour is enough.
The second job and his schedule: Do parents have after-school tutoring classes while accompanying their children to study and train? Not necessarily, parents can accompany their children to study and train, and at the same time, do some appropriate things by themselves, which can not only lead by example, but also let their children get in touch with the new workplace life prematurely. The natural premise is to make three chapters with children, study and train under the same roof, and also need to maintain their respective cities.
Some parents must often run outside in their second jobs, which is not true, but this does not mean that children can't participate in their parents' second jobs, so that children can wait for their second jobs as a "professional experience" of mobile games, and then make extra time for them to study and train alone.
Give children some time to be alone. In fact, children's solitude means that parents must properly release their teaching to their children. Understand that children are not equipment, and it is unlikely that they will live under the pressure of parents and tutors for 24 hours. Giving children time means paying attention to their personal privacy and giving them their own unique personality characteristics.
Although it is said that "no one is perfect, people are not sages", it is very important to be a person with basic social morality. Many parents have been teaching their children how to be a good-natured, polite and moral child, but they have neglected that most of their growth habits are copied from their parents. If you want to shape a hot child, you need to make yourself look more popular. This is a fact.